The Last Post.

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This is my last blog post. 

I want to THANK every one who has read,followed,commented  and encouraged us on our journey. A huge thank you to those who became friends and sent private messages although I have not been the best at replying I have been moved and cheered by your input.

Today we have celebrated Peter's life before he was cremated, the sun shone and the day was exactly as he wished, the chapel was full of friends and family who all supported me as I told his story.

As the service was at 9.15 we just had a short gathering serving coffee and biscuits, Peter was very well thought of and such lovely memories were shared by his friends. The gathering was at one of Peters favorite seafront restaurants, the view is spectacular and the food excellent. 15 family members stayed on for a long and very noisy lunch.

Peters physical presence was absent but he was there at the table with us in memories and laughter, as one by one stories were recounted like

:- do you remember when dad chased and caught an escaped penguin on the road only to find it was a cormorant.

I am very lucky to have been left with a close and loving family who will all miss Peter as much as me but we will hold each other as we travel onwards.

I have found keeping this record of our journey cathartic I needed to remember the good times. otherwise all the tests treatments and procedures Peter went through would have been pointless.

I send enormous warm and gentle  hugs to all you dear friends and wish you strength and courage.

Mushty X

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember
    Mushty, it is with great sadness I have read your last post. ( I have read them all I'm sure ) yet it was with a peaceful feeling too. You did everything & more I'd like to give you a hug & say well done, now take care of you for a while. I've walked with you & Peter because my own journey started just before yours when I got the fourth & final diagnosis of my rare cancer giving me a prognosis of three to four months. Doctors just say "keep proving us wrong"! So I do! For a time I thought Peter would do the same, you both showed such courage. Keep strong. Much love Elma xx Sorry I don't know how to PM.
  • FormerMember
    FormerMember
    Dear Mushty - I have been thinking of you all today. Yours & Peter's journey has been shared by many of us. I for one have gained so much. Thank you. Now it's time to take care of yourself for a while. Take care Mushty. Love Debbie xx
  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I feel quite sure Peter would have been very proud of you as you drew strength today from your love for one another. I only hope you can find some peace in your heart over the coming months. Much love, Louise xx

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    FormerMember
    You were in my thoughts yesterday and I am glad the sun was shining. It is time to gently close the door on 'blogging' and let your lovely memories wrap around you. Life will be strange for a while but your family will help you through. Sending you love and strength for the future xxx
  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Mushty, you obviously did Peter proud, as you always do. It sounds as if you had laughter along with the tears, and I'm sure that Peter approves of such a lovely tribute to him.

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us. It has helped many, and you will be in my thoughts frequently. Much love and hugs xx