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Hello,

My name is Claire and I have never blogged about my cancer experience before...

I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in July 2009, a few months after my 30th birthday and well, as anyone who has been through this will know, it was a shock (to put it mildly!).  Since then, I have had 4 surgeries (3 of which were debulking) and I am currently having my third round of chemo (in my case each round consists of 6 cycles of chemo lasting 3 weeks each). 

In 2010 my consultants told me the cancer was now officially incurable and it was just a question of buying me time (they were talking 3 to 6 months).  One year and a half later, I am still here and loving life, for however long it lasts.  Each day is precious as far as I'm concerned, the goods and the bads...

I still tried to get back my old life after round 1 of chemo, but I have now realised and accepted that my life has been changed by cancer forever.  The surprising thing though is that I can honestly say that I am happier now than I was for the first 30 years of my life.  Don't get me wrong, cancer is not my friend and I wouldn't wish it on anyone, but it has given me the opportunity to learn what makes me happy and understand better what I want from life. 

I used to always be busy doing things, socialising, seeing friends, travelling, working (a lot!) but because of the side effects of chemo, I have had to discover new hobbies to enable me to continue enjoying life without exhausting myself or going insane. 

This is what I would like to share with you, the tips and tricks that have made chemo more bearable for me, the activities which bring joy to my life and inspire me to keep going.  This sounds terribly arrogant, but over the last 3 years, I have come across so many "non cancer affected people" who have found these new hobbies inspiring that part of me can't help thinking I should share this with the people who are going through the cancer treatment like I am, in the hope that maybe one of my tips might bring some joy to your day or a smile on your face.  Even if it is just for a few seconds, it will be worth it...

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hey there, good on you for having high spirits! my fiance has incurable cancer and he skydives to take up time! thats pretty extreme though haha... he feels really unwell chemo days though so as soon as he feels ok he does anything and everything he can... do u have a good support network? xo

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hello Clair B. I would love to hear about your activities that help you through treatments.

    Liz xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Claire,

    May I say there is such positivity and good vibes shining through on your blog which quite honestly could have been a depressing read.  You made it quite the opposite and you are a strong, positive character.  You're reading is an inspiration and I wish you all the very best that life can bring you and long may it continue.

    We would love to hear your hobbies and your continuing journey of life.

    Take care

    Jan xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Claire

    You sound a lot like me, but farther along the road. I'm only (only!) ten months into diagnosis and treatment, but my chemo doctor said from the start they couldn't cure my cancer - peritoneal, in my case - only keep it under control. Truthfully, I'm not sure they can even do that, but you can't give up, can you? I read a lot of posts on the site about people going back to work after cancer, or even with cancer, and I don't know how they do it; I barely have the energy to get through a day at home, even sleeping for most of it. But I still want to do the things I love - going to concerts, the theatre, visiting historical sites, going out for nice meals - and get frustrated when I can't.

    Which is all to say: Hurrah for finding other ways to fill your time, and if you have any hints, I'd be happy to hear them!

    - Hilary

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember
    Hi Claire, please don't leave us in suspense for too long as I want to get doing. I have a cancer that they say if you are going to have one"you want mine".....yer right?!! But it certainly puts our lives onto perspective and I admire everyone on here for coping or some days not but always sharing their warm hearts with others. Clare xxx