Dad's second oncologist appointment post chemo...

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We saw the oncologist today following dad's second chemo for SCLC, he's had a tough cycle and spent the majority of it in bed.  Problems with his bowels (he also has a primary bowel cancer) and fatigue, weight loss etc. but the first appointment shown a reduction in the lung tumor so it was all good news.

This time however there is no change in the lung tumor, he said it is hard to see on an xray because it is hidden behind the heart, major blood vessels etc. but he said it was 'as expected'.  Blood test results all fine for chemo to go ahead on Thursday.  Because of the bowel problems dad has been having, he was unsure whether that was to do with the bowel tumor or the chemo side effects, so offered dad some different laxatives or reduce the chemo.  Dad asked for reassurance that it's working then he will continue with the same dose.  The Onc said that he is 'as expected' at this stage and said he expected the CT scan results to show improvements so dad said he would take the higher dose again this time.

He's had some problems with his back over the last day or so, maybe it's sleeping in his own bed at home again or something else, as he does have spread to the bone we have to keep an eye on that and let the Onc know if the pain gets any worse.  His CT scan will be of chest and well into the pelvis, dad took this to mean he is worried/hiding something from him and I said that he said his main concern was his bowel so he is reacting to that and saying the CT scan will show us if there is a blockage or worse, so it is a positive step. 

So all in all dad is a little down again, finally home but continues to feel poorly, drained, unsteady on his feet.  Only 3 weeks ago he was walking to the pub for a pint, now he struggled to walk from the car to the hospital.  it's all happening too quickly, he just needs a few days of feeling normal to get his confidence back that he's heading in the right direction.

Now they're home he has no distractions, no noise, can sleep all he wants but I think knowing I was coming in from work, or getting up etc. gave him some structure to his day, a reason to make an effort to sit up and smile.  He also needs to pile on some weight as well, oh to be given the all clear to pig out....!!

So we move forward again, I think the whole appointment was positive, they are continuing, they are expecting an improvement, it doesn't really get better than that at this stage does it?? xx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Molly

    I think this is a really positive sign, but given the bowel cancer, I can understand why your Dad is still feeling so grotty, so hope the CTs are reassuring.  

    Looks like we're both on for Thursday - I got really good news from the Onc this morning too!

    Give Dad a hug for me - and tell him I said to start fattening up or I'll come down there and force-feed him Haggis and Tattie scones!  Tell him I want him to hang in there - we're both doing good!

    Good for you for being so positive and supportive.  It would be much harder for him without you to keep him on track.

    Love to you and yours

    Ann x

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    Molly, keep with the positive thinking, all in all it was good news. Sorry your Dad is still feeling grotty, tell him the 1st pints on me with a chaser to follow when he gets back to the pub, love to you and your family

    Jackie xx

  • Being in your  own bed is wonderful! And, given his condition, sleep is good therapy. Hope things continue to improve.

    KateG

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    Hi Molly,

    It is good news that he can still go ahaead with the treatment, it's unpleasent and wears you out so if it's working he will soon be back in the pub watching the footie.

    Give him a hug Love from Helen xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Molly send him a big hug from me too and same as Sunny I will be force feeding him haggis too! I would pig out anyway... and tell him why wouldn't they scan his pelvis if he has a tumour there? he should worry if they don't!!

    Maybe you can pop round after work to surprise him to get up and smile..

    Hang in there, best daughter in the world as always he is lucky to have a daughter like you

    Big hug to you

    Little My xxxx