dear all,my last blog in jan I was going to see the oncologist with my dad .he was 78 years old and had been diagnosed in 2004.he refused radiotheraphy and chemo,and relied on medication which suited him fine.unfortunately the cancer had spread to his spine and bones by the end off2008.he became unable to cope with the pain,even with the help of the palliative care team at home and went into st joes in hackney,where…