Fed up!

Hi Bonnie

I always get fed up in the evening too, and at weekends I always seem to pick on my husband and end up me crying and him being grumpy with me, so I can emphasise with you. And with christmas too makes it so worse.

Just say sorry to him, i am sure he understands.

Hugs Sailingmungo x

Hi Bonnie

Please don't feel too bad we all have days like you've had today. A little time and space and you and your hubby will be back to where you usually are. The stress and anxiety makes us all behave unreasonably at times and your hubby will know this as he's feeling it too.

Don't worry if you can't feel positive every moment of every day, nobody can. Just put it down to a bad day and resolve to try and feel differently the next.

Hope all goes well for you and don't be too hard on yourself.

Love Maxine xxx

Hi Bonnie,

I see your point, but we cant be normal like everybody else.Its just one of these things. We have Cancer and we just have to learn to live with it.

Getting upset isnt going to make it go away. But

we can make it a lot easier on ourselves and Familes. By accepting we have drawn the short straw. We all on this site go through what you and your Hubby go through,it isnt easy and its not fair. But thats life we either be Positive and fight this Cancer or we can lie down and not put up a fight,and let it run our lives. Well Bonnie I for one believe that life is worth fighting for and I believe you think the same . Its just one of those Bad days We get every now and then. I know its not easy. But it is worth it. All the best and good luck to you both.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

Hi Bonnie I hope today will be a better day for you!

I have been on both sides of cancer, I lost my husband to it 4 years ago and I have had it myself last year.

I can honestly say that my husband having cancer was far more painful and frightening than my own.

You are both suffering and it is understandable that things will get fraught at times.

Give yourselves a break and make today a better day.

All the best to you both and good luck with your treatment.

Love Julie xx

Hi Bonnie I know what you are feeling i too am waiting on results of 2 biopsy i had after finishing treatment this july .

You wouldn't be normal if you didn't feel fed up and down you have been through a battle and still going through it i think we all think after treatment thats it i have found it worse.

Im sure you will feel better in time and you husband does understand but like mind properbly finds it as hard as we do .

Good luck for the future keep your chin up Bonnis things will get better im sure x

Good luck for the futurex