Dear Dad

  • Bad news

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    How are you supposed to be when your told someone you love is going to die and there is notthing the doctors can do about it?

    we were told yesterday that the cancer is too advanced and that there is nothing more the doctors can do. They have withdrawn all medication and fluids apart from his pain relief, so now its just a waiting game.

    The Doctor told us that the cancer was so aggressive that chemo didn't work and my…

  • Dad in Hospital

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    My Dad is currently in Hospital and has been in there was over a week. I really feel that he doesn't have long. I had a few days off work this week and this is my first day back, i feel detached from my colleagues and my dad is constantly on my mind and I want to be with him. I never realised until it was to late what a huge part of my life my dad was and how much a loved him. I feel so isolated at work and was told by…

  • Here we go

    FormerMember
    FormerMember

    My dad was diagnosed with Lung Cancer in February and has gone down hill really rapidly. I find it easy to talk about without getting upset and I often joke with friends- however when I’m alone or with family I find that I can’t joke about it anymore and I struggle to hold myself together with family, especially my mum. I struggle to cope and find it difficult to manage how I feel. I have made mistakes and work and…