Dad in Hospital

My dad is in hospital too, we've just been told they won't do any more chemo and we've to meet the palliative care team so I know exactly how you feel. I work full time and I just can't make myself care about the pointless little day to day dramas that go on here, they don't matter to me any more. On the plus side this apparently gives me a more 'chilled out' attitude to work. Great. I too didn't realise how much my dad meant until I realised I was going to lose him. If I'd known I didn't have the years with him that I expected I'd have attended more Sunday dinners, spent more time pottering in the garden with him, arranged days out and trips to the Lake District. I wouldn't have taken all those moments with him when he made me laugh for granted, I'd have stored each one away in my mind as something precious and I wish I could go back and do them again so I'd remember them all but I can't. If wishes could change things I'd have mended him by now. I'll be thinking of you and hoping that even in the hospital you can get a few more good moments to treasure with your dad. All the best and stay strong, Vikki xxx

Hi Emma-louise,

My thoughts are with you  your Dad and Family. I do hope things improve to give you and your Dad a little more time together. Look after eachother.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx