Limbo anyone?

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I have not had a bad day. In fact i have felt quite normal at times. I am trying to stay positive.

However, there are times in the day when I just feel alone. Even in a room full of people and family - I am in my own world - I have to deal with this and my thoughts.

I think the gap between being told there might be a problem and when you go to see someone seems like forever. This is a kind of limbo - not that I intend on doing the limbo - I am not that flexible anymore!

So I stay here in limbo land - listen to the drums and think how low can you go?

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Daisy,

    We all have those days when you are in a room full of people but the only person there is you, and your thoughts

    which can be a good thing. Its up to you as to how you handle it.  All the best and good luck.

    Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Daisy

    We have recently come out of limbo land again, waiting on results is bloody awful, I wish you all the best on yours.

    Dave (hubby) often remarks how lonely he feels even in a room full of people, I have those moments too so I completely understand what you mean.

    Sometimes it feels like you literally have to drag yourself out of it, but you do it.

    I think if I lived near a deer park, that would be the place for me to go when my days got that low.

    Hope your feeling better today and dont have too many downers before your results.

    Shaz (((XX)))

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Daisy,

    We all know the waiting game and yes, it does your nut in. But I see a sense of humour sneaking out there and a good dose of positivity so hang on in there... they will see you through and I learned to just go inwards and be alone sometimes that was ok too, as long as you come out again...

    (and don't ask me to do the other limbo! I know i'm not tall, but it would be messy...

    Big hug to you and hope your wait is soon over...

    Little My xxxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi Daisy

    I have experienced that too - see, you're not alone already! ;)

    I know what you mean though, it IS weird - but as Little My said, humour and positivity is really important and we can see you have both :) It is equally important to acknowledge your down days, we are after all, only human.

    Good luck with your wait, and hope the news is good, whatever it is, we're here anyway!

    Hugs and Love

    Ems xxx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    hi daisy,

    withdrawning inside is natural, there's a blog on here by sunny leith that asks if you live in 2 worlds, the simple answer is yes. 1 world to face the doubts and demons this awfull condition brings and a second were you act as normal as you can.

     limboland is a good place to visit, reassess and try and place all the worry, but don't go to low infact,play your own game JUMP over the bar blow a huge raspberry to the doldrums and let your humour,positivity and life hold you up.

      If all else fails join in on macland, we'll are great at picking people up,listening,advising  but best of all been there when you need someone to talk or shout at.

      stay happy positive and all our wishes to you and yours, hugs joe x