Grow Up - Most annoying

Please don't apologise for letting off steam on here. That is what we are here for hun, I have read your previous posts and my heart breaks for you.

I'm so sorry you got such a response from someone on this site. We are supposed to be here to support each other when we need it and I think at this moment you need support more than most.

You have every right to moan and if someone doesn't want to help you out that is their problem. Please don't be put off by this response. There are loads of people who are more than willing to chat to you, myself included.

Thinking of you at this horrendous time. Contact me if you want to hun. I am here for you if you need me.

Love and best wishes,. Christine xx

Hi Ya,

What have you to apologise for you lost your lovely

Baby and Your Mum.R.I.P.. If your so called friend

dosnt understand the pressure and the grief that you have just gone through,and will be going through for a long time to come. Has either no understanding or caring and is an" Idiot."If anyone should apologise its them.

Take care and be safe Big Hugs Love Sarsfield.xxx

Hi Megan - Sorry - unusual for me but so lost for words !! How can anyone on here be so insensitve as to make such a comment !!

You have been through so much latley - more than a lot of us will ever have to deal with in a life time, and you have coped so well !!

I think you have shown a courage and bravery way beyond your years - Ok you still need some support & will do for some time yet - but I understood thats what we offered our friends on here ??

Not sure who you refered to as your trusted friend -  Don't think I want to know either !! but think that a trusted friend is the last thing they are !!

You say you have so many friend on here offering support - you are right - but you have generated that support by your attitude.

I so wish you will continue to come to the chat room - You need our support still - but we need the inspiration that your courage inspires in us - The chat room  is so lucky to have you there.

love and all my positive thoughts go to you

John xx

keep coming back and there are many people who will support you in private or in chat, it may be that those that are trying to support others also have issues unresolved and there may have been a 'hot spot' touched during the conversation...

I don't know you, however you have had to cope with so much, remember that looking after yourself is key to recovery not only for yourself, but for your family and those that care about you... with lots of best wishes and hugs Jules x

Hi Megan, please don't give up on this site - we all want to support eachother here and whatever is on our minds is why we come here.  I am sorry you had a bad conversation but don't judge one thing against all of us on here who want to encourage and help heal you.  You are so young to have gone through such major losses in such a short time and your mind is going to be all other the place.  Not eating will not heal you and using this as a way to deal with  your pain wont help.  If your lovely mum could see you now from wherever she is she would be so worried for you - I am sure she would want you to live your life - for her, your poor baby and your husband.  However, right now you are grieving so much and I am afraid its normal.  Just deal with your time minute by minute and make a slot each day to think positively about your grief by letting it out in some way to honour your precious mum and daughter.  Maybe do something that mum would enjoy doing with you and have a glass of wine.  Time really does heal but memories will always be there - one day those memories will be bittersweet rather than horrendously sad.  Oh, and I just want to say you are very much welcome on this site as you give to us so much by sharing yourself - keep doing it and don't let someone else's negativity add to your genuine grief.  Please speak to me anytime, rant, rave, cry, laugh, remember.  God bless, Ann xx