Grow Up - Most annoying

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Hi Guys - Sorry im having another ranting session here

Im 26 years old, My world was perfect with my husband and my newly born little girl 2 years on my wonderful little life took a knock when my little girl was diagnosed with leukemia. When i lost my little girl in December i though there was no way of going back to being happy i was devestated. On Monday my mum passed away and her funeral was on Friday. Needless to say i dont know what to do with myself, Im all alone with noone to turn to. Im making myself ill by not eating - silly thing is i know im doing it and wont stop. I have barely slept this week whick is probably why im in this foul mood.

Anyway i find this lovely place where everyone in the chatroomn has been a great help, i have been so overwhelmed by the messages of support i have recieved. Im so pleased i have found it. Tonight i was speaking to a trusted friend whom i have met on here in private. Fair enough i was moaning as usual but the reply i got really hurt me. They basically told me to stop moping around and grow up. I snapped and she left withought me apologising and i now feel really bad was i wrong?

Anonymous
  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Oh megan,  I'm really sorry to hear that.  Maybe the person you were chatting to was having a bad day and something hit a nerve?  I'm not making excuses for anyone but so many people on here are struggling to cope and I'm sure whoever it was didn't mean to upset you.  Please don't give up on chat.  You've had such a tough time and we are all here for you.  Caroline XX

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi again, Stars.  Just read your Bio &c. and it's tragic that you got upset at what someone said. I guess it's not hard to be a bit too blunt in a place like this site where it's easy to take it for granted that everyone else has some sort of a handle on how we're feeling. Anyway - ta for welcoming the stranger earlier. Keep well.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Your in my thoughts and hope you can feel the love that we who care want to surround you with.

    I feel the pain of your loss and your frustration with what has happened.

    Keith  lol