pre operation assessment nurse rang to say that Babs heart rate is overly high so I have to take her in for a heart scan on Friday before her op' on Monday. Also they have said that they want to give her a spinal aneathetic rather than a general - which I know Babs has said she doesnt want. Thing is, I haven't plucked up the courage to tell Babs this yet. Yesterday she was in floods of tears saying how when she shuts…