Fertility decisions

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Hi

I was diagnosed with atypical hyperplasia last week. Had MRI scan on Thursday to see if any cancer is spotted. Either way, I’ve been recommended a hysterectomy. I’m devastated. Turn 43 next week and husband and I have done several rounds of ivf and got no eggs.

We have been told about alternative treatment options if no cancer found (progesterone coil) but, given timelines for this treatment and my previous inabilities to conceive, is there any point? If treatment worked we may have a small window to try IVF with a donor egg, but I’m so unsure about that. I feel an absolute mess and don’t know how to make a decision.

Has anyone else faced this in their 40s who still wants children?