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Hi, after having slight spotting in early September (menopause happened 7-8 Yeats ago) I did an E-consult form for my GP surgery one evening mid September and got a call back the next day offering me a face to face appointment the following afternoon. At that appointment the GP did an examination, took swabs, and requested a full blood panel. She also put me on a 2 week hospital referral. Had blood test two days later. Two days after that I received a phone call offering me a scan appointment a few days later. A further appointment was booked to see the consultant at his hysteroscopy clinic, I made the decision to travel the 45 mins to my appointments alone, as I wanted to own my illness. At the first appointment (ultrasound and trans vaginal scan) it was noticed that my uterus lining was 8mm thick - more than it should have been post menopause and told me I’d need a hysteroscopy. The following week I went for the hysteroscopy, but despite the consultant’s best efforts and my own attempts to brave, it didn’t work and I was referred to have it done under GA. A couple of weeks later I had a pre-assessment, and then three weeks later I went in for 7.30am and had the hysteroscopy under GA as a day surgery patient. During the hysteroscopy a polyp was removed and a biopsy done, That was at the beginning of November. 

I was phoned about 6 days ago with my results. All test results are discussed at a Friday morning meeting before patients are told. My results had come in the previous Friday afternoon and had therefore missed that meeting, and didn’t hear back till the following Friday. The result was that cancerous cells had been found and that it was grade 1. I was told that the next thing was fo “stage” my cancer and that I’d need an MRI of my pelvis and abdomen with contrast, plus a chest X-ray. Those happened yesterday. I did the 45 minute drive alone once again - I’m an independent person and thought I’d be braver alone. Had the MRI first, including having a cannula inserted for the dye and the Buscopan to be administered. I think the MRI took about 45 mins - I wasn’t looking forward to it, but was made comfortable and given an eye mask, and that helped a lot. Went to the radiology desk and requested my chest X ray and I was escorted to their Emergency X Ray Unit.

So now another wait. Waiting is the worst bit. I’ve been told by support nurses that I should get my results on Friday 3rd December. It’s going to be a long 9 days. I’ll obviously be interested in the result but am also aware that I won’t know for sure until I have surgery and the surgeon sees what’s actually there. My husband has been great. I’m being very careful about who else I tell as I don’t want to have to deal with other people’s reactions, good or bad. I understand a hysterectomy is likely so I’m trying to lose some weight. Apart from that I’m just carrying on as usual because right now that feels like the best way to beat it. Thanks for reading this far!
 

  • Hi,

    your story mirrors mine and many many more on this forum. I was diagnosed in August, had the exact same tests pre surgery as yourself, then surgery on the 30 September. I also didn’t want to tell people, but my husband did. He said the more support not just I had, but he had too was important, and to be honest, in hindsight he was right ( although don’t tell him that!)  once your result of your scan is read, you will get your appointment with the consultant, and discuss the next step best for you. I totally felt as though the whole thing was happening to someone else, it was surreal, and I liken it to being on a conveyor belt, constantly moving me along the different stages of getting me well again. I am always happy to chat if you feel the need, stage 1 sounds so positive, I was the same, and post surgery was 1a,  which if you have to have this cancer , my specialist nurse advised me last week is the one to have! Sending lots of positive hugs, love Emm xx

  • Thanks Emm. I’ve literally just had an unexpected phone call saying I will get my MRI results tomorrow. My chest x ray was clear which is good. So tomorrow morning I will know the next bit.

  • Hi matmitefan59,

    I think it’s a good thing you are getting the results earlier than first thought, if you’re anything like me it’s the waiting that’s the worst as your mind works overtime! I got mine the next day, which was a relief  as then I could deal with the facts rather than the ifs and buts. I will be thinking of you, do let us know how you get on.xx

  • Hi Emm, results were a clear chest x ray, and only a “tiny” tumour, nothing anywhere on the MRI, so it’s currently a stage 1A. I’m on the urgent waiting list now for a date for a hysterectomy. Consultant/surgeon was lovely,

  • Oh that sounds the same as mine! I’m glad you got to know now rather than waiting another 9 days or so, at least now you can deal with the firm facts and plan for your surgery and recovery. Is the consultant offering you laparoscopic surgery? That’s what I had and recovery was amazing. I came home the day after, and only needed the odd paracetamol for pain relief, but you must take it easy! Even though you feel ok and look ok on the outside, the inside needs time to heal. I would stock up on peppermint tea as it’s a godsend for trapped wind after surgery, it really helped me. If you need to chat or ask anything I’m here for you, take care Emm xx

  • Hi Emm, yes the aim is laparoscopic though I understand that can change if they can’t get to all they need to get to. I hate peppermint tea! Had a c section under GA with my first child and remember the wind and referred pain. Thanks for the offer of support. Woke this morning wishing it wasn’t all happening but I’ll grit my teeth and get on with it! 

  • Hi  and welcome to our little corner of the Online Community. Here you'll find a lovely group of supportive ladies who have all been exactly where you are now. A possibility of cancer diagnosis brings all sorts of stress and fears and if anyone can hold your hand and reassure you we will. We're all at the start, in the middle or the end of what can only be described as a roller-coaster ride. The ride no-one wants to get on.

    It’s always helpful to others if you write a little something (or a lot) about yourself and your journey to date. You can enter it into your profile (click on your username and select “Profile”) It’s helpful to other members with a similar diagnosis who can then hopefully answer your questions. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. You can amend or update it at any time. If you’re not sure what to write, just click on my username.

    If you want to ask any of us any questions please come back and do so. There's always someone around and we can offer a shoulder to cry on, a hand to hold or listen to a rant, we’re here for you. We all agree the endless waiting for appointments, results is the pits!

    It might also be a good idea to download this booklet Understanding Womb (Endometrial) Cancer. I found it invaluable on my journey. 

    Click on the link I’ve created to find out more information covering diagnosis and treatments for Womb cancer.

    You might also find this link to what to take in my overnight bag useful for when you have surgery.

    It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear. It's free to call on 0808 808 00 00  8am to 8pm, 7 days a week. Have a look to see what is available by Clicking here .

    There is also an Ask an Expert section, but you should allow two working days for replies from our expert team.

    Sending you welcoming hugs, Barb xx 


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