Two years ago today I had my laparoscopic hysterectomy at Southampton Hospital for predicted grade 1 stage 1a endometrial cancer. Unknown to me it was an operation that probably saved my life, as, when the histology was done, rare precancerous “stics” were found in both fallopian tubes, which if these hadn’t been removed, would have likely led to high stage ovarian cancer. I recovered well, was walking 30 mins or so per day by 2 weeks post op when I got my results. My staging was revised to a “technical” two and I had 25 x radiotherapy sessions and 2 x brachytherapy as precautionary measures - finished mid May 2022. I’d go as far as to say that having had cancer has improved my outlook on life. Having faced it and got through I feel that I can face anything and have far better priorities in life. Like everyone who has had a brush with cancer I do tend to have the “what about recurrence” wonderings whenever I get an ache or pain or random symptom, but that’s something I’ve just had to embrace and work through as it happens. Life goes on, and I’m glad of my cancer experience so that when I meet others who have cancer or have had cancer I am far better equipped to know how to chat and relate. I wanted to encourage those of you facing ops and treatment to keep going and to keep reaching out for support from this group when you need it. It’s been a great resource for me - which is why I still stick around now! Feel free to ask me any questions.
Hi Marmitefan59
I am just a bit behind you as had my surgery in April 2022.
Cancer does indeed change things and it makes you look at life in a different way and notice and value the small things in life.
Thank you for sharing your journey and for all the support that you give others on here- sharing with others who have gone through a similar journey is invaluable I feel.
Jane
Thankyou for sharing! My surgery is next week and I know it has to be done. However having retired so I can travel more am worried about how life might change - will I be able to get insurance etc. 1st step is to get rid of the cancer though - I guess it’s one step at a time.
Hi Marmitefan59, I remember it like yesterday and I remember your posts, especially your diary it helped me immensely as I had my op on the 25th, three days after you. I felt less alone, just knowing that someone else was experiencing the same was like a comfort blanket to me. I also agree it changed my outlook on life . I can now put it behind me and just try to carry on as best I can, I count every day as a blessing. We've now added another anniversary ...our hysterectomy anniversary...lol. Take care x
Exactly this Madesp - I couldn’t have put it any better myself! I was a week after you and the memories are coming flooding back. Just to add to our stress, I remember us being in the midst of strict covid restrictions. The anxious wait for a negative covid test before they would operate and having to go it alone as we weren’t allowed any family/friends at the hospital. I was so grateful to have marmitefan59 and you to help me through. 2 years on and I am so grateful to be getting on with my life again. I can’t thank you and marmitefan59 enough for getting me through the tough times x
Hi MarmiteFan59
Your post was well-timed for me. It is a testing time dealing with radiotherapy side effects at the moment. I have sought advice from the radiographers and gynaeoncology nurse and I have treatment and dressings.
I knew I may get side effects so it's not a total surprise but it is still hard to handle. But...Once radiotherapy is over these should improve and your advice to "keep going" is very appropriate right now
I have learnt a lot since my cancer diagnosis and I am still learning. I have felt fear, despair and grief. I have also felt compassion for myself and all of you on here. I have hope every day and joy that I am here living in this beautiful world. The hope I feel is reading yours and others caring posts. We want to reassure and build each other up and compassion for others is a beautiful thing.
Thank you MarmiteFan59 for your inspiring post. Thank you to all of you who are travelling your journey alongside us and share on here.
Kim xx
Kim,
I have always been the sort of person who is grateful for each day, my Irish parents always taught me, be grateful as tomorrow is not promised to anyone. Since my diagnosis though I really live it, I have joy in the most simple of things that maybe I did take for granted before. Oh and I don't sweat the small stuff anymore either lol. Your post is lovely, really uplifting x
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