Urinary issues after brachytherapy

Ummm is the natural way relations? 
I have been celibate since the death of my husband and will remain so though plastic dilators sound a bit ick.  

Muse, I have to say that for me I much prefer using a vibrator, as it’s silicone and not hard rigid plastic, which I find much more comfortable, I’d never used one before, and I was a bit embarrassed even to just look on line, but I found a discreet beauty site which listed them as a wellness product and I ordered from there - it arrived in plain brown packaging with no clue on the outside what it was. 

Yes Muse, that's what I mean about the natural way, Of course I wrote this because I'm lucky to still have an active hubby and appreciate that it's not the same for all. I'm sorry if I sounded insensitive and definitely didn't intend it this way. I still occasionally use dilators too. 

Take care xx

Hi can you let me know the name of the beauty site as the time is approaching to start using a dialotor for me. 

Hi Muse, it’s called Look Fantastic. 
https://www.lookfantastic.com/

There’s a drop down menu top left hand corner. Select Body, then Wellness, then Sexual Wellness. You can then select and browse vibrators, lubricants etc (I chose water based and unscentec). I wasn’t keen on some of the lurid colours, and some of the shapes seemed bizarre, but each to their own! Some of the reviews are quite amusing! I chose a silicon USB rechargeable one that was described as smooth and slim, and is a pastel colour. It can be used with or without vibration. Have fun! 

Cheers! 

Oh you are right about the odd shapes of some. What did you think of the Divine Dialators set? I can’t seem to copy the link. 5 pieces of different sizes. I have been offered a 20% first order discount. 

Hi Muse, they look okay - silicone, which is great and also slightly shaped/tapered, which should make insertion easier. I love the handle so it doesn’t get lost! Hahaha. If you just want a dilator and not a vibrator, ie just dilation not stimulation, they should do the trick - and definitely look better than the rigid plastic NHS ones. 

Their prices are reasonable so may get a simple vibrator and the dilator set.