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Hi Laney,

I think your reactions are perfectly normal.

I actually asked the consultant if it was worth having the operation! She and husband bit my head off !!! I'm so glad I did now!!

All the best xxxxx

Hi Laney10,

Welcome, though I'm sorry you have had to find your way here. Your reactions are perfectly normal in the circumstances. It's a scary time and waiting for tests and results isn't easy. That sudden impetus you've found to get things done will  help to keep your mind occupied. Hopefully you won't need that will you've made for a very long time. I know it's hard and you're bound to be worried but try not to let it rob you of the joy of the little things in each day - so smell the blossoms, savour the coffee, the sound of laughter and so on. Keep doing the things you enjoy while you wait because it can help. Lease let us know how you get on x

Thank you for your lovely message. Went to GP about a persistent water infection and a week later hear the cancer word - wasn’t expecting that. Good to know some of my irrational behaviour is typical; it certainly pulls you up in life. This website has been great as of course I’ve googled everything so good to read stuff here that’s valid. I will update with results and in meantime will brew more coffee; enjoy the sunrise and stare at the neighbours blossom on his tree x

Thank you xxx