I was diagnosed around 3 months ago with testicular cancer and received an orchidectomy and am now undergoing 3 cycles of BEP which I am half way through. My question to the group is how to go forward. I was someone who had long term plans and would set up a nest and future for retirement. And when I look at certain side affects and secondary problems caused by treatment that can catch up with you in 10 years I ask myself do I just live for the moment? I'm torn between the sensible longterm approach (my default) and a new wrecklessness to want to just make the most of every minute. Im 28 years old and would love to hear from any long term survivors on the subject.
Elliot
Hi Clarkey
I'm 49 and had orchidectomy 2 years ago and a single cycle of chemo, so not long term really.
Are there any specific side effects or secondary problems that you're concerned about? I don't find myself worrying about much, although I'm expecting to one day to have to deal with the inconvenience of TRT.
Best wishes
G
Mainly the secondary cancers, heart problems etc. The sort of stuff that finishes you off. I don't know what an average amount of time to live past triple cycle BEP is for someone my age. And with a more informed decision I feel like I'm at a junction where I can choose in what direction to take my life.
So it's concerns specific to your chemo regime. I had a different treatment, so I can't really comment. There are lots of people on here that have gone through 3 BEP so I'm sure someone will get back to you.
I see you're only 28. I would expect that you'll get through this in pretty good shape. Have your doctors talked about any risks with you?
Best wishes
G
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