Feel like I've been ignored. Don't even know where to start. I'm 68 year old type 2 diabetic female. I started getting feelings of nausea back in 2019. Was sent for endoscopy which showed food still left in stomach so had to have this repeated. Same again. Referred to GI. was under Gi on and off over the next few years. I've had various ultrasounds and ct scans, my last ct scan was last May. I had a further blood test to check my liver function which was normal. I was discharged from Gastro in August last year. I felt something had changed. My symptoms were getting worse so I went to see my gp who didn't even examine my stomach and said my symptoms were likely due to a previously diagnosed hiatus hernia. I insisted on being referred to the endoscopy unit. My GP marked my referral as URGENT (22/11/23) I telephoned endoscopy on 5/12/23 only to be told the consultant had changed my appointment to ROUTINE. Unbelievable. How can they do that? How could this cancerous ulcer get to this size and been missed. I feel totally let down after having followed everything I was asked to do. It's the size of the ulcer that's worrying me. Had a blood test done and going for a ct scan on Tuesday I'll come back and update when I know more but for now I'm living with hope
Thank you so much for your reply. Since my original post I had a pet scan and was told it hadn't spread which was such a relief and I would be able to have curative surgery ie chemo, sub total resection, more chemo. They did a staging lap on 7th March. We went for results last Wednesday and were told its now inoperable because I now have a very small cancerous tumour on the outside of my stomach. I have to see oncologist but been told possible 4-6week wait. Really don't know what to expect now. Been told I'll be given chemo and maybe radiotherapy depending on how chemo goes.The waiting is the worst part as it's totally out of your hands. Best of luck to everyone going through this
I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis! You must feel so angry as you had such a long wait and the initial diagnosis was positive!
Don’t give up hope, others have had similar diagnosis and there are treatment options. Hopefully others will give you more information but chemo does work and there is also immunotherapy. I know that SDH has done a lot of research.
Good luck and don’t give up hope!
Jac
I just read SDH's journey and what a truly inspiring story. The hardest part for me and my family is to be given the hope of curative treatment only to have it then taken away. Thank you so much for your reply. It means a lot and I'm still hopeful that I'll be able to have treatment to prolong my life. I'll come back with an update
Sorry for late reply and thank you for your kind offer. The latest update is that I had to have a blood test on Thursday and have an appointment with the oncologist next Wednesday and although I'm so pleased that things are moving forward, I'm really anxious about what he will tell me. I feel like I'm living on my nerves right now, just like a lot of other people in this situation. My symptoms seem worse especially upper epigastric pain accompanied by nausea and general discomfort in my stomach. Hoping that once I start my treatment plan that these might ease off a bit. Thanks again SDH and your dad's story is so inspiring x
Hi Scott, do keep us posted on how things go with the blood test and oncology appointment. I can only imagine how hard it is right now, especially with the wait and symptoms - I do hope they can offer you some relief on those symptoms. I remember you saying you were deemed 'incurable' because of a small tumour outside of the stomach. Did you get any insight into the location and type of spread - eg was it a lymph node, was it peritoneal or liver? It's worth asking and finding out exactly why they consider it incurable, because on occasion, what might be deemed incurable by one team might not be by another, dependent on their experience and how up to date they are with what's possible. Also do remember that what is initially considered incurable can change when there's a good response to chemo.
Hoping your symptoms alleviate soon, SDH x
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