Hello. My husband is 51. We have been together since the age of 16, 35 years and married 27 years. He was absolutely fine in October, went to the GP in November with an upset stomach. On 20.12.19 a camera found stomach cancer. He had a CT scan on 27.12.19 and yesterday we were told he has stomach cancer that has spread to his stomach cavity and liver and there is nothing they can do to treat it. He’s unlikely to even be able to have chemotherapy as his liver is too damaged. Palliative care only and he’s lookIng at months not years. I just cannot believe this. It’s happening too quickly. I took him in a wheelchair today for a blood transfusion and iron infusion. We are due to see an oncologist soon to hear more details about any treatment options and timeframes. What do I need to ask the oncologist?
