Hi all, my husband (55years) was diagnosed on 6 August with stomach cancer which has advanced through the stomach wall and caused a collection around his spleen. We have been told the full stomach and spleen need to be removed. His tumour has perforated in the upper part of his stomach. We have been referred to the regional team as the gastroenterologist said the cancer “isn’t behaving normally” and kept referring to it as a very unusual case. I don’t really know what that means. We have the regional MDT appointment tomorrow. Any advice on what we need to be asking is greatly appreciated.
Thanks,
Laura
Laura
I’m so sorry to hear about your husband…what a shock for you! The MDT will decide on a treatment plan. It may help to write down the questions that you have as I found that my mind went blank when I was being given information!
It will be a long road so focus on what is the next step.. if surgery is an option? If your husband’s cancer is unusual then you can ask about a second opinion. Others in this group have done that but hopefully you get a plan going forward! X
Jac
Thanks Jac, yes it’s been a huge shock. The gastroenterologist said the unanimous view at local MDT was his stomach and spleen need removed but I hope surgery will be still on the table as I’ve read a bit about surgery not being recommended with spread. I do have a few things written down but there’s so much I don’t know so I’m very grateful to hear from others who have travelled this road. It’s a whole new world for us and everything feeling very surreal.
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