Hello All
54 years old, I went to the GP due the frequency of going to the toilet.
PSA 42.6ugL
Had the MRI scan 17/05/25, results showed Prostrate gland appears normal in size and demonstrates diffuses dark T3 signal involving both lobes more evident on the left,
Normal MRI of the lumber spine.
No Features to suggest bony metastasis.
Multiple bilateral pelvic sidewall lymph nodes largest on the left.
Had Biopsy, CT Scan and Bone scan and I was told that I had Gleason score 9 and that I needed a PET Scan, I am still waiting for the scan date.
I have found that the waiting is long but I am managing to keep my mind active by continuing to work so far but the poor sleep due the frequency of toilet visits makes it more difficult.
Each time we get some news or results both my OH and I get pulled back into the reality that this is actually happening. I hope that things will be more settled when I find out what my prospect is and what possible treatments could be available.
Thanks
SWEEP
A Glint of hope
Political Correctness..... it's a Pain.
Prostate Cancer is easier to negotiate, just keep that head up.
I'm now into my seventh year.
I found myself in a similar position to you, slightly younger and my gleeson was an 8.
Similar story to yourself, except i produced a few large blood clots on those trips. it was off parting elsewhere, its not in my bones either. My initial prognosis was a lot less than i have had this.
Please read my bio/posts To save repeating myself( boring others)
We are all different, react differently to the treatments, which there are many options , so if one ain't working for you. they will try another.
There is a world wide programme making massive in-roads to our type of cancer, I have benefited massively from it. there are a lot of people working for you and people like us.
Stay positive, it will be hard at times and keep climbing the hill that's in front of you.
Chemo- repeats itself the side affects are the same with each dose, think of it as hurdles to get to the finish line.
the track will be steeper each cycle, there is a finish line. I had no sickness
Radiotherapy does not hurt, there maybe minor side affects.
Best of luck.
Tillysghost
Hello Sweep
A warm welcome to the group (and the Gleason 9 club!) although I am sorry to find you joining us. As the cracking post above from tillysghost says:
We are all different, react differently to the treatments, which there are many options , so if one ain't working for you. they will try another.
Once you get your final results from your PET Scan your MDT team will come up with a treatment plan. At the moment you are at the hardest part of your journey - the diagnosis and treatment planning stage. trust me - it get's better.
If you can add your full biopsy results we will have a better idea where you are with this - Gleason 9 (? + ?) and TNM staging.
Stay away from Dr google and feel free to ask any questions - you will get honest answers from people who have "been there - done that". Nothing is stupid or too trivial - it's a learning curve.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Dr Google will frighten you unnecessarily, believe me I read masses which I have mostly forgotten.
I decided to leave to those who know.
Thank you for the reply
I have just found out after waiting a week that my referral for the PET Scan was only received today and the wait time is around 3 weeks. Is this normal waiting time for this type of scan. I am concerned that as time goes by the spread could be worse !!
Thank you for the reply, I think mostly we are staying positive but today has just given us a knock back when I found out about the waiting time of the PET scan
Hello Sweep
Waiting times vary at different Hospital Trusts. I am under The Christie in Manchester, they ordered a scan last Wednesday and I had it on Monday. Sadly 3 weeks is pretty average.
The thing to remember is Prostate Cancer is slow growing, I know like me you are a Gleason 9 so it's aggressive but 3 weeks should be fine.
As with everything on this journey you learn to advocate for yourself and be polite but persuasive with your NHS Trust. Keep a note of every contact you have - their e-mail, name and contact number. If you are available - contact them and say you can take any short notice cancellation and are willing to come in at the drop of a hat.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Sweep, it is a pain, all the waiting for results. Like you, I tried to keep working as much as possible, it stopped my mind from wandering. It was the 'fear of the unknown' that got to me all the time.
You are doing your best to keep positive, which is great.
The best piece of advice I had when I was first diagnosed was "Concentrate on today, try not to think further than your next appointment!"
It didn't help getting all of the pamphlets from the hospital full of possible 'side effects'.
This forum is very good, even if you just want to vent...
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