In a very strange place. GP told me a few hours ago he was 80+% sure I had prostate cancer and my hip x ray showed multiple sclerotic patches. I'm 69. Now in an emotional tumble drier, my lovely wife so upset, family being supportive and lovely but.... Seeing consultant soon I'm told. Not sure anyone can help but reading all the other stories makes me feel less alone and less scared. Sense I am at the start of a difficult journey. Struggling to get my head round this.
A hospital nurse told me that if you are going to get cancer "Prostate Cancer" is the one to go for ! It is slow growing and there are many effective treatments for both curing and the long term management of the disease which can give you many years with a good quality of life,
Sorry if this sounds flippant but it is very true.
You are in the worst place right now waiting for a definitive diagnosis. Things will be better when you have this and you can move on and learn to live life with the disease (or cure it).
Until you get there try and distract yourself with the things you enjoy and the people you love.
All the best for the future. Rob
Hello, thank you for writing. Have an elevated PSA but don't have data but GP noted multiple sclerotic areas on my X Ray. Was pinning hopes on Prostatitis but X Ray suggests cancer and in hip bone. Feel fine apart from achy hips. Just waiting now for consultant but world truly upside down! Thanks again
Hi Cader28 , thanks for the PSA info. This is a really difficult time for you and we all know what it is like. I had a very similar PSA diagnosis 8 years ago. Treatments are improving all the time as well, so IF it is confirmed as PCa the medics have lots of options. Try and stay positive, and come back if you want any info or just want a chat. David
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