I've got 2 separate appointments this week - one with an oncologist and one with a urology surgeon.
What sort of stuff will I find out?
Is there anything I should ask?
My preference would be for surgery but do they recommend one over the other?
Apologies if these questions seem daft, just never been in a situation like this before.
Ta,
Davo
Thanks very much 
Never had any sort of operation so I'm slightly nervous but very relieved it's getting sorted.
I've started practicing my peeing exercises the surgeon recommended but any advice welcome.
