My husbands PSA rose to 11 & was experiencing hip pain. He then had radiotherapy which reduced his PSA to 6.6 & stopped the pain. We have seen his oncologist today(21/10/25) for his routine appointment & his PSA has risen to 21. Oncologist has booked a bone scan & CT scan & depending on these results he may have to have chemotherapy. The word chemotherapy evokes thoughts of "last straw". Has anyone else had this path & what happened after?
Have a look at the post here
community.macmillan.org.uk/.../anyone-has-experience-with-docetaxel
Hello Susielou56
Thank you for the post and I am so sorry to read of Richard's PSA rises. To be honest with an initial PSA of 102 and confirmation that the cancer was already in his bones in February 2023 I am surprised that Chemotherapy wasn't the order of the day earlier on in his journey.
Chemotherapy most definitely isn't "the last straw" and it works very well. IF Richard is offered Chemotherapy there are lot's of Community members on here like Slartibartfast who have been there and can help you both through it. It affects everyone differently!!
As an aside I had a scan 6 weeks ago - I have a rising PSA (26.5) after 3 years Hormone Therapy and my Consultants meeting is this Thursday . If the news is bad I may well be joining him!!
Keep the faith - he will be fine, we can get you both through this.
Best wishes - Brian.
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No, chemo is not the “last straw” by any stretch but if you think that way we are not supporting you enough.
My profile is typical of your (hubby’s) history and I’ve finished Carboplatin recently and I’m recovering well.
My PSA went rogue and still is high but if three measures are down (which they currently are I’m pleased to say) I’m happy and so is my cancer team.
You will have to choice to have the chemo or alternatives as you prefer. Only you and your hubby can make that decision. But before all that get yourself and hubby to raise your expectations and needs for the future. If you want to travel, travel. But lift your sights from doom and gloom and cuddle up to chemo as a friend and possible saviour.
Although each body is different, we are mostly made of skin and bones but the big differences are between our ears.
I hope you get inspired to be positive (when you can) and ask enough questions here and with your own cancer team, so you can get behind the next treatment.
Good luck
Hi Susielou56 , had my chemo 8 years ago. You can read (and post your own profile) by clicking on their name. Definitely not the end.
Best wishes, David
Please remember that I am not medically trained and the above are my personal views.
Hello Susielou56,
As others have said, chemotherapy is most definitely not the last straw.
I completed my first course of chemo 11 years ago for lung cancer after surgery to remove the affected lung. I'm very lucky to have had no further lung problems since, so it looks like it has done its job as intended.
Then just last year I had chemo for prostate cancer recurrence after first treatment by radiotherapy and HT in 2016 (this was completely unrelated to the lung cancer). Mine was also docetaxel as part of triplet therapy which involves ongoing indefinite treatment with HT and a fairly new drug called darolutamide.
Slartibartfast posted a link to another thread and my post on there has a link to a blog I've written on my PC treatment. A further link is below.
I'm sure he'll be fine. If you have any other questions about this just ask and I'll do my best to answer.
I should add that there are other effective treatments apart from the path I am on, and the most suitable will be recommended to fit your husband's own circumstances.
Derek.
Although each body is different, we are mostly made of skin and bones but the big differences are between our ears.
I think that is a terrific statement.
Our minds can drag us down or lift us up.
I vote for the lifting up.
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