20/20

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Monday 22nd and I had my 20th RT of 20 planned sessions.... oh my, what a mix of emotions. My daughter flew from Dubai to see me ring the bell and brought my granddaughter who clapped when everyone else applauded.

A review meeting immediately after, just to cover all of the bases. Then a consultant appointment on Tuesday which went very well, good feedback from the RT Team and almost apologetic when he said it would be 10-12 weeks before my next appointment. He will also fit in with my travel plans, excellent.

A blood sample taken, appointment for my 6 monthly hormone injection sorted and tablets sorted for another 3 months.

I have had a few tears since and I am tending to ignore/forget that I still have cancer.

I cannot express the gratitude that I feel in relation to the staff at The Freeman Cancer Centre, the chap who cleaned the toilets at 1pm every day, the receptionists who met you with a smile every day and the multitude of Radiotherapists. First class.

It's a long 4 weeks, it has had it's effect both mentally and physically, my wife has sat patiently by my side every day, for that I shall remain eternally thankful.

I shall happily field any questions that readers have

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  • Well done and congratulations!   AW

  • Enjoy you wonderful moment and feat. You have done well.

    You are definitely allowed to show you emotions after all you’ve been through. Milk it, and forget all you know from school and work where emotions are not a guy thing — you follow your instincts and let it all out.

    To have your daughter supporting you all that way was special too.

    Enjoy a while away from the RT tether and get some air.

    Best of luck

    Ding Ding Ding 

  • Hello  

    Cracking post and so pleased you have sailed through Radiotherapy.

    I have had a few tears since and I am tending to ignore/forget that I still have cancer.

    Now that's an amazing statement - I sometimes feel like that - it's great. I wish i could feel like that all the time. i confess there are tears on a regular basis but usually of joy!

    There's no handbook to how to navigate a cancer journey - but after my Radiotherapy, I felt I was almost in a wilderness - months to my next appointment and boy did I miss the chats with the Radiology staff and fellow cancer suffers on their own personal journey.

    And thanks for the offer of help to fellow travellers - we are all in this together.

    Best wishes - Brian.

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  • Brian - We (some of the friends I made prepping for my treatment!) did discuss how it was going to be at the end of 4 weeks... not being cosseted and the centre of attention for all of this time (Does that make sense?)

    I was extremely calm about it all and appreciate it is early days, however, they have done what needs done. I now need to travel and get some control and normality in my life. Control being the huge one!

    All the Best. Kevan