I had a radical prostatectomy on 7th July, my PSA level had only dropped to 4.5 when I had the follow up appointment with the surgeon.
Initially he suggested waiting 4 weeks and testing again, but that was cancelled and I was called in sooner. (I knew something was up when that happened).
I met with the surgeon on Friday 19th, he said the MDT had reviewed my second scan and unfortunately the cancer has spread to my lungs and possibly my liver.
Apparently there are small spots on my lungs which showed up on the CT scan, which is why my PSA level hasn’t dropped following the surgery.
I’ve been given a prescription for Bicalutamide and a couple of leaflets. I wasn’t really given much opportunity to ask any questions and felt that the meeting was very rushed. I’m quite annoyed about the lack of empathy or care.
I don’t want to start the treatment as I am really worried about the possible side effects. My wife is struggling with chemotherapy for breast cancer at the moment (she started last week) and we have a (needy) whippet. So I don’t know how we will cope if I can’t look after them both.
Should I speak to someone at the hospital about postponing starting the meds, until my wife is better?
I’m in a bit of a daze at the moment, not sure what to do for the best.
Any advice would be appreciated. Many thanks
