My husband passed away Tue 5th Aug,
since being told end of April he only had 12 months, Paul never recovered from his 4 fourth round of chemo (this was a 1 st of stronger chemo) spent 3 weeks in hospital with a kidney problem, dehydration & temp spikes (couldn’t locate infection) had a stent put in his right kidney & I had to get him out of the hospital because of his anixety , the care was awful, & that’s another story. He came home & we couldn’t control his pain, St Luke’s hospice & his dr was helping, then his legs just kept giving way & they took him into St Luke’s short term ward to sort out pain relief, he went down hill so quickly, the care for him was fantastic & caring, not just for Paul, but for our 3 girls & 4 grandchildren.
he was surrounded with the people that loved him the most, when he passed awsy, I’m so lost & empty at the moment. Prostate cancer is so invasive & the government should do a lot more to pick it up early & let you men have quality time. For 18 months since he was diagnosed, all we did was have hospital appt. He was 63 & we’d been together for 46 years m, married for 41 years
Gillian
Thank you
Paul fought until the end, & it was much quicker than expected 
but he’s out of pain. Were the ones hurting now
xx
