Hi,
Well my husband finally had his RALP last Thursday. We’ve just had the “Well, this time last week….” conversation. Small streaks of blood in the leg bag the last two mornings after we’ve come back from a walk, but I don’t think that’s anything to worry about.
All went well on the day. Hone the next day and got used to the routine of catheter management/bag emptying. Night one I was VERY glad we’d used a bucket (no stand provided) as the valve of the night bag was left open - oops.
Next day a large box arrived that we weren’t expecting containing 30 single use night bags, 10 single use day bags and a stand for the night bags. He’d already been given a couple of spares of each (reusable) so not quite sure why the money has been spent on this, but better to have than not I suppose.
The night before last the bag was over the 2 litre mark when he woke up (that’s probably about 10pm to 7am). I’ve suggested he uses this week until the removal to experiment with drinking more earlier in the day and a bit less towards the end of the day as I’m not sure where 2 litres of urine is going to go with poor bladder control!
Despite being told by the hospital not to buy much incontinence stuff in advance, I think we’d both feel more comfortable knowing there is a small quantity of a selection of items so we’re going to look at the options in the local chemist,
I’m not sure if I should ask (at least I can filter the replies) but what’s it like having the catheter removed? He’s still got a week to go and the anxiety for that experience is already starting to build.
Hi Mainly a Mum
That's quite an inspiring story and it looks like all is going very well. Long may it continue.
As for the catheter, I had an indwelling catheter for 10 months awaiting a TURP operation. I had a routine catheter change every 12 weeks - my anxiety levels rose towards week 12..................
however - no problem, no pain, one out, one in in 5 minutes The nurse got me on my back, had a bit of a clean round, drained the balloon down and just said "deep breath" - I could feel something but it was out in 5 seconds - and it's painless.
Hope this helps.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Yes like the comment earlier having a catheter removed is a doddle
had my prostrate removed 6 months ago (key hole) and I must say it was no problem at all
couple of weeks later had my catheter removed
I was worried a little
but there was no need
no problem at all
they sine me up for a ongoing monthly supply of pads so save me money
6 months later I don’t need them
fully controlled 
had my PSA tested
and shocked to say my constituent range me to say
I was very lucky I had a very aggressive cancer and he managed to cut all around it and it is now 0.025
in my mind it was the best decision to have it removed once and for all
hope this will help anyone
dont worry be happy
age 72 quite fit for mr age happy days
