Hi everyone.
My mum was diagnosed with locally advanced pancreatic cancer last December. She managed the majority of her chemo like a trooper. She finished her chemo in July. Mum lost her appetite about June time and in August was put on supplements. That is all she has had since - she refuses to eat coming up with one excuse after another. She's also started lying to us which isn't helping, along with having chemo-brain, which isn't improving. We've spoken to her, the doctors have and she's not listening, she knows best. We take her to her appointments but are not allowed to ask questions unless we ask her first. She has now said it is up to her what she shares with me and my sister.
Although I agree with her, it's not helpful with her forgetful-ness. Only want the best for her but we're going to lose her sooner if she doesn't help herself. I'm really struggling with how to help or where to turn.
Jane
