Hi im new here, mu hubby first had a stomach pain on 26th November and on 22nd december was diagnosed with Terminal PC. We also found out last week it has spread to his small intestine, liver and lungs. My husband has declined treatment as currently he has good days. The chemo would only buy him a max of 3 months as he could only have the treatment with one drug.
Im really struggling to deal with the fact i only have about 2 months left with him. I lost my dad to cancer 8 years ago and mum to heart disease coming up 6 years. Im 46 and struggling so much, i go from tearful, to angry to hysterical.
Any suggestions on how to.process these emotions would be greatly appreciated x
Hi Nessienoggins and a warm welcome to the online community
I'm sorry to read about your husband's prognosis and it's understandable that you're feeling as you do. Macmillan have some useful resources and you might find this article on emotional support for carers useful.
As you know the online community is divided up into different support groups so I hope you don't mind me suggesting that you also join and post in the supporting someone with incurable cancer group where you can discuss your emotions with others in a similar situation to yourself. If this is something that you'd like to do clicking on the link I've created will take you straight there where you can join and post in the same way as you did here and join in with any existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
x
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