I lost my brother to this awful disease two years ago aged 70 and only just coping with his loss still yesterday my mother in law was diagnosed with it and has already spread she is 86 . I don’t know how long she has but it has brought it all back . How does everyone cope
Hi Labrador2
Welcome to our community, I hope you find it both informative and supportive.
I am Steve, one of the community champions and my expereince of cancer is via my wife who has Leiomyosarcoma.
I am sorry to hear about the loss of your brother and now your mother in law too. There are a couple of good charities that can help with dealing with grief cruse bereavment care and the loss foundation.
Sharing on here can be helpful but sometimes talking can take things a bit further, you are of course welcome to ring the helpline here - 0808 808 0000 - it is open 8am to 8pm 7 days a week. If face to face might help too then we have a tool in your area that can find support near you.
Sometimes people say to Jancie and I "how do you cope" and perhaps the most honest answer is we were not given a choice.
<<hugs>>
Steve
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