So scared awaiting diagnosis

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Hi all. 
I feel bad even posting here. But I have nowhere else to turn. I’m 52 went through the menopause at 38 when my periods just stopped  until a few months ago when I started spotting which gradually turned into bleeding  since then I have lost weight, been crippled with a lower back pain, have a pain low down which just gnaws away at me constantly  it also affects my bladder  I wee all the time and even if my bladder is empty my bladder hurts like it’s got a ten pound baby on it ,it also hurts like mad when I have sex

I have constant indigestion my appetite has pretty much gone and I’m severely constipated  I also sometimes have blood in my stools  

I went to the dr yesterday and her face said it all  I have been given an urgent referral for a biopsy and have to have a load Of bloods this morning. I’m so scared I’ve just this week lost my mom tCrycancer, my hubby had it this time last year and now this  I don’t think I can cope Cry

sorry for the rant

xxx

  • Hello Janene123

    Welcome to the Online Community and the Ovarian group.

    I have just responded to your post on the Womb cancer group if you want to pop over and take a look. 

    Jane

           

    Macmillan Support Line - 0808 808 00 00, 7 days a week between 8am-8pm

  • Hello Janene - so sorry that you have had to join this group.   What a really awful time you're having.  I am so sorry to hear about your mum.    I can only speak from my own experience which may or may not help.   After my initial appointment at the GP surgery and awaiting a scan/bloods etc - it really was for me, the worst time.    The fear (for me) was off the scale if I am honest.  In my particular case, I was diagnosed with OC.   The point at which I felt a bit better was when I spoke to the surgeon and they had reviewed my scans etc and had a plan to treat me.    I had amazing professionals supporting me and I know how lucky I was to have the sort of compassionate professional care that I had.    Whatever the outcome and while it is only natural to experience fear - always keep in your mind that it may be something that is straightforward to treat.   Please always reach out on here and use the MacMillan support line - if you want some extra support.   Waiting for results is very grim and everyone understands that you do need to just have a rant as you say or just reach out and talk.    Warm hugs are sent your way. x

  • Hi Thankyou for your reply. Can I ask what will happen when I go on the day of the tests etc? Will they give me any idea if it’s likely to be cancer or not? Many thanks

  • Hi Janene

    once you have had all your tests you should be inform d of th results in person. A CT scan will give the experts a clearer diagnosis and an idea Bulb f the next steps ro be taken. It all depends if it is cancer and if so exactly where it is located. Surgery may follow forbid possible removal of the cancer. During the op a biopsy will be done to confirm the type of cancer and stage. In my cas a biopsy was done of the tumour and lymph nodes to ch go if the Cancer had spread elsewhere. They were clear. Depending on what is found i

    Dahlia 2270

  • Hi Janene - I can only say what happened to me.   The GP felt the lump in my abodment and I went straight for CT scan.   CT scan showed the mass which they could see was likely to be cancerous - I then had a further scan to check my lungs and a CA125 blood test (which was around 110).   I was then earmarked for surgery.  Once everything was taken out - full staging and histology done to identify exact stage and next steps.   I then went on to have 6 rounds of carbo.    Its only natural to be filled with questions about what next - you feel so out of control with this - its really awful.   You could speak to your GP, whoever is dealing with you about the tests and you could also ring the MacMillan line.   There is also another group on here where the MacMillan nurses will reply directly to you.   I used that group and it was massively helpful for me.   Try and look after yourself at the moment and hard as it is, try and just take one step at a time.   Hugsx

  • Hi there I'm new to the forum, saw yiur post from last month and just had to check in to see how you are now,  sounds like you were going through a rough time, I hope things have got easier, or at least a little clearer. Thinking of you.