Hi all - after a few weeks of tests, it is very probably that I have a late stage ovarian cancer. I am scheduled for diagnostic lapro surgery in about 10 days and then they will be able to see what is going on and perform biopsies to confirm diagnosis. But, my scans showed nodules on my colon and omentum in addition to mass on one ovary. I will definitely have the debulking surgery - in 10 days if things look good or if not after 3 cycles of chemo. I am 45 and have 2 boys, ages 10 and 15 and I am just devastated with this diagnosis. I am trying to think only one step at a time, but of course my mind is going to the future and when I think of my kids, I just can't stop crying. Any support would be appreciated because I know this is just the beginning of my fight.
Thanks everyone, Kathleen
Hi Kathleen
Those words “you have cancer” are just devastating and it does take ages for it to sink in and then for you to decide how to handle it. It is natural to think about the future especially as you have young children. It’s easy said but you must be strong and fight this
I was diagnosed with Stage 3 ovarian and peritoneum cancer last April, I had 4 chemo cycles, then major surgery last August with 4 more chemo cycles starting 3 weeks after. In January this year I was put on inhibitors.
It is helpful talking to the other ladies on this forum knowing that we are not alone.
If you can, google and download an article called “After the Treatment finishes - Then what” by Dr Peter Harvey. It is so worth reading and had so helped me
Sending hugs and lots of positivity
Carole xxx
Hi Kathleen, I was diagnosed Stage 3C last August. I had debulking surgery in September followed by 6 cycles of chemotherapy. Started on a Parp inhibitor 9 weeks ago. It is so scary in the beginning and I was the same as you. I cried so much at the uncertainty of my future. One day I thought, this is not going to beat me. Positivity is so important. There are so many treatments out there. Try to not look too far into the future, deal with one day at a time. Lots of cancer services offer counselling and this can be helpful. I found the more I googled the worse I felt. I then decided to google positive outcomes, which gives you the strength to get through those initial days/weeks. Take care. x
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