Suddenly told won't do operation - confused.

I have no experience in your actual situation, as I have been very fortunate and had amazing care, However, you are always entitled to a second opinion. Sometimes it isn't even about the decision, more about someone explaining it to you in a way that you understand. I had that with the first doctor I saw at hospital, was a 'yes/no man', no explanations just yes or no. Safe to say I did not see him again, but my consultant now explains everything, so when I get told something I find shocking or confusing, she will explain it all to me clearly so I then understand and 9 times out of 10 I agree afterwards. Hope that helps :) 

Hi , sorry your experiences have been unsatisfactory , I too was told that I would have six chemos then surgery , but after the chemos my oncologist told me that the surgery couldn’t go ahead , and that the team knew after my first three , naturally I was devastated as I had pinned my hopes on the operation , however I explained that I failed to understand , and within fifteen minutes the surgeon called me at home and told me exactly why not , it’s due to a large area of cancer on the small bowel , and I could be at risk of losing my small bowel , he also told me more detail which convinced me . I completed all cycles in June but a blood test and scan in November revealed it was growing again , am now soon to have the second of six carboplatin only , hopefully followed by parp inhibitors , I have a little fluid but hoping this will be reabsorbed , because December 2019 I was drained of ascites three times before my chemo , has anybody else had similar treatment and on parp inhibitors . Hope all goes well for everybody on treatment , take care .