Being with partner during chemo sessions?

FormerMember
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Hi Wave

I know maybe different because of covid now, and to probably ask individual hospitals,  but does anyone know if you are allowed to sit with family member/partner whist they have their chemo? Especially first one?

Thanks (sorry if posting in wrong bit)

  • Hi Yvonne

    Definitely not wrong posting in this part of the group.

    Yes these are challenges times and I have seen the rules changing all across the UK day by day and over the past week I have talked with people who have been able to take someone with them to both appointments and treatments so it’s a question for your husband's medical team ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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    FormerMember in reply to Thehighlander

    Ah Blush thanks. I will try and find out tomorrow - before the day on Friday. I think I would like to go and be there ( but ultimately husbands choice at the of the day) thank you. Cherry blossom

  • Hi Gray cat

    Not had any treatment since July and things may have been relaxed a bit recently

    I had R-chop and it was always at least four hours to get done and most of a day the first time. I'm really not sure I would have wanted my wife hanging around for that

    Make sure they have something to read and listen to and some snacks etc.

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    FormerMember in reply to Garfields

    Thanks for the response.  My husband has said he doesn't want me there Disappointed, but I understand why. I hope your treatment went well and you are doing ok now? Thank you, Yvonne. 

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hello I have another question- whilst partner is having treatment, now restrictions are lifting somewhat,  are you supposed to limit contact with others and avoid socialising to reduce risk for your partner of infections?

    Husband can ask consultant next time he goes but I was wondering whether to meet friends.  Thanks and hope everyone is OK  :-)

  • Having been through two SCTs and now having a permanently reduced immune system it’s all about being carful, risk assessing where you go and who you see.  

    There is no real difference in this approach be it in COVID times and none COVID times. For us it’s just common sense.

    A simple cold taken into the house by a friend for you may not be a problem but for someone in treatment it could be a big problem. Good hygiene, good ventilation and being wise...... and try and not stress this ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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