Identifying as 'Extremely Clinically Vulnerable' in the community

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Hi,

What do people think of having a highly visible way of identifying ourselves as 'Clinically Extremely Vulnerable' (e.g. a Nationally recognised badge), and what might we do about it?

I, like most of you (I guess), am classified as Extremely Clinically Vulnerable in this worsening COVID situation. But, I don't look vulnerable. This means, when I'm out trying to get some exercise in the park (very early in the morning), joggers don't give me any space. When I go to the hospital, people don't give me any particular space. I was getting very annoyed about this.

My assumption is that people don't give me space, because they are complacent, and don't know that it's needed. So, what I needed was a way to let people know that I need a bit more space.

I created a pink HI-VIS vest that says : "CLINICALY EXTREMELY VULNERABLE, PLEASE DISTANCE". The idea being, if people know I'm vulnerable, they will make just that little bit more space.

So far, this works OK. Some Joggers make a point to circle around me. Some people in the hospital make point to give me a little extra space. BUT - I'm sure it could be better. One problem is: people need to read my vest to see what it means, and not just mistake me for a Bin Man, or Parking Inspector (which has happened). I think a lot of people see the vest, but don't read the signs on it.

What would be really valuable is a Nationally Recognised symbol, and campaign, that people easily identifies vulnerable people so people know to give us just a little bit more space. I really think people would be willing, if they were just aware. If there were a symbol that were recognisable, and visible from a distance, then it wouldn't need to be quite so over the top as my pink Hi-Vis vest.

Do other people agree with the sentiment? Would you be willing to wear a symbol (a large badge maybe?) that lets other people recognise you as Extremely Vulnerable, or would you feel a bit stigmatised, or maybe even feel like certain people might take the opportunity to target you?

I (probably very naively) feel that if enough people support something like this we could get something created to support it (either at national, county, or borough level).

NOTE: I'm not suggesting we don a special badge and then throw caution to the wind regarding COVID safety, but realistically, we sometimes can't avoid circumstances where there will be other people.

  • Hi , interesting thought and obviously everyone will have their own thoughts.

    I for one would not wearvanything that makes me stick out in the crowed. As long as I am happy that my family and I are controlling our environment and following the guidance then great.

    I have been in this situation twice before following both my Stem Cell Transplants where catching a simple cold was as dangerous as coming in contact with COVID.

    My first lockdown was 6 months and the second was 12 months and yes, despite all the precautions I was still 5 times back in hospital (31 days) ICU x 2, Chest Infections, Lung Fungal Infections, the RSV Virus, Pneumonia x 2, Sepsis x 2 and A Fib but I am still around and doing great.

    Lymphoma Action produced Distance Aware Badges during the first lockdown but don’t know if they are still being produced.

    https://lymphoma-action.org.uk/distance-aware-badge

    Take care - be safe.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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    This is a very deeply personal question and a personal response. I am sure that some people (the vulnerable and non-vulnerable) will see the positive in this. Others whose natural inclination is not to seek out attention will not be so positive. Some will find that it marks them in a negative way, in a similar way to AIDS or HIV did before it was better understood, bringing about judgement and not caring. My personal view is that I like and respect your idea and agree its a good one to have a nationally recognisable emblem that is voluntary to use. Hopefully before too long its need will be negated once the vaccination programme is well under way. May that day come soon.

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    FormerMember in reply to Thehighlander

    Thank you for the insight Mike.

    I originally leant towards your thoughts on not sticking out, and preferring to control the environment. I previously found this more achievable, as we lived in a quieter area. There I could get out to a park early in the morning and there would be no-one else around.

    For my treatment, we moved into London and it feels impossible for me to get to any open space and keep clear of people. Hence the silly looking Hi-Vis.

    Thank you for the link to the Lymphoma action distance aware badges. I didn't know about them. My thought was to try for something more universal (it's not just Lymphoma or even Cancer that makes someone vulnerable). I also figure this is good for everyone (not just the vulnerable), as if it can reduce the number of people severely affected by COVID, it can reduce stress on NHS, etc.

    Thanks.

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you Teega. I really agree about the double-edged nature of something like this. The feeling of sticking-out vs asking for recognition is very personal. My thought/hope about this was: if enough people wore something like this (or there was enough of a marketing campaign behind it), then it would be a tool available to people if they wanted it. People could have that choice. At the moment, I don't really feel we have that option to choose.

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Hi Mike, regarding the Distance Aware badge from Lymphoma Action. I just read into this a bit more. I didn't realise that this was a wider initiative, and backed by NHS. Seems like it was promoted in Wales, but maybe not so much elsewhere? - unless I missed it.

  • Blood Cancer UK have their own Shielding Badge and I am sure that a lot of the other main cancer charities will have their own versions. So there are tools available without reinventing the wheel.

    shop.bloodcancer.org.uk/.../shieldingbadge

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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    FormerMember in reply to Thehighlander

    Thank you Mike. In this case me reinventing the wheel would actually make the wheel worse (dilute the message).

    On something you mentioned in an earlier reply: when you went through your STC you mentioned how you and your family controlled your environment. Do you have any practical advice on what you did (maybe you have a link to it in other posts, I know you're quite prolific)? I'm curious because I hope to get to a STC soon, and maybe you have some non-obvious things you, and your family, did to reduce risk?

  • It will be more straight forward due to the COVID restrictions in place but we basically controlled everyone who came into the house and who we came in contact with in any place.

    All our family and friends understood that if they had the slightest symptoms they stayed away.

    We did go out and about but went to places where there were no crowds, open spaces, on line shopping when it was not a ‘thing’

    I was actually wearing masks going in and out the hospital during both my lockdowns getting odd looks!!

    Todays hype about cleanliness and hand sanitisation was part of our life so this did not come as a problem during the COVID lockdowns.

    Eating a good balanced diet

    I see you have joined our supportive Stem cell transplant group if you go down this road.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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    FormerMember in reply to Thehighlander

    That's great. Thank you very much Mike.