New diagnosis

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Hello

My name is Teresa. I am 60 years old. I joined the Macmillan site in February having been told that I had a pharyngeal tumour by my ENT consultant. I have been posting and getting some lovely helpful replies from the head and neck group. Initially I went from being fairly healthy and active, to someone who couldn’t stop crying, I couldn’t eat, I couldn’t sleep. My GP signed me off work. Two weeks later (24/2) I had a biopsy and a week later I had an MRI of the head. Over the next few weeks, I tried to keep busy and my appetite began to return a little and I put some of the weight that I’d initially lost back on. Sleeping tablets helped me when I needed to use them.

On Tuesday of this week the ENT consultant telephoned to inform me that unfortunately I had low grade lymphoma. He was very apologetic for having to give me the news over the phone but due to Coronavirus it was safer to do so. I was then informed that I would be passed over to the Haematology team. Today I received a letter with an appointment to attend the Haematolgy dept next Wed at my local hospital, quickly followed by a txt informing me that I must not go to the hospital but that I would be contacted by someone either by phone or letter.

I have some concerns in that until my biopsy I felt quite well in myself. I had problems with my left ear blocking and a little lightheadedness very occasionally. Since the biopsy, I have had a tingly skin sensation which sometimes feels like sunburn. Has anyone else experienced this before starting treatment? I have also gone back to how I felt when I was told that I had a tumour. Not eating v much and problems sleeping. My  GP gave me something to help combat the anxiety but after taking the first one last night, I woke up this morning with tum upset, nausea and quite shaky. and GP has advised that I stop taking them. I know that I will have to have scans, bloods etc and I suppose that is when I might find out what type of lymphoma and stage. Between this and Coronavirus I have to admit- I am sooo scared right now. 

Sorry for long post but any feedback would be much appreciated.

Regards

Teresa

  • Hi Teresa  and welcome over to our little corner of the Community.

    I have had a look back at your posts in the Head and Neck group and you received some great support and I hope that you get the same from us Lymphamaniacs.

    So you will see how complicated Lymphomas can be to diagnose and is often not picked up immediately. There are over 80 types so getting this spot on is very important as this will help pick the best treatment for you.

    Don’t get hung up on the stage number - I was stage 4a2 but it made no difference to how things went (hit my community name to see my story) so it is important that a high stage number is nothing like that in a sold tumour cancer....NHL is very treatable, yes treatment can be hard work but on the whole normally very successful.

    You need to hang in until you get a clear diagnosis and a treatment plan as once started the treatment can work very quickly.

    Ask your questions as we will help as best as we can.

    You may want to put some information in your profile as this can help a lot. Click here to see how to add details as this helps everyone to see a little about you and how best to reply to you.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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    FormerMember in reply to Thehighlander

    Thank you for your speedy reply Mike. I was browsing through some of the posts earlier today and noted you had advised someone to put info on profile so I did that. I also read the information that you have put on and found it very informative.

    Best wishes 

    Teresa

  • Hi again Teresa, looking at good reliable information is very important so so recommend looking at Lymphoma Action and stay away from random Dr Google searches.

    lymphoma-action.org.uk/.../non-hodgkin-lymphoma

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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    FormerMember in reply to Thehighlander

    Thank you 

  • Hi Teresa I read your post last night and I was exactly the same as you eighteen months ago.

    my story started two years ago with an enlarged lymph node. Fast forward after lots of tests eighteen months ago, aged 64,I was diagnosed with follicular lymphoma, kidney cancer and possible breast cancer all in the same day! The ent consultant who delivered the news was sensitive and kind but it was an enormous shock. More tests followed and breast cancer was eliminated. I couldn’t sleep, I lost a stone in weight very quickly and couldn’t function through fear! I totally lost trust in my body.  My brain felt wired! Mike The highlander gave me wise advice and that was to write everything down. Strangely enough once all the treatment plans were in place I began to feel in control and the fear subsided. I made a real effort to get as fit as I could for the months ahead.
    I had a kidney removed and apart from some tiredness I feel great. The haematologist put me on watch and wait as I had and still don’t have b symptoms and my bloods are good.

    up until the last few weeks I have been living a very full and happy life. Being on the vulnerable list has put paid to that! 

    You will make sense of it all. My gp said it takes ten years to get over a cancer diagnosis. To start with it occupied my every waking moment. Now I can put it to the back of my mind. This site is great because you are not alone. People who have not had a cancer diagnosis really struggle to understand the crippling fear.

    Jane
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    FormerMember in reply to Joncol

    I was the same as you in as much I was initially diagnosed with a head and neck cancer which was a shock as I thought I had an inflamed gland , I had just about got my head around that thinking surgery and all that involved, I was diagnosed with burkits lymphoma which I was told was treated by chemotherapy, I just decided that I didn’t want to know everything that could be known, I just wanted to get on with it and accept the whole process, I couldn’t change anything, I was 60 at the time , I managed to have four of the treatment cycles (100 hours of non stop chemotherapy) at home via a backpack, so I am still here, I had to give up work, but I am still here, it at time’s was a bit rotten , but I am still here, common thread running here!

    due to the shielding process I am now indoors for a while , it can be a bit boring, but having undergone the chemotherapy I did nothing, went no wear , saw no one all due to protect myself from infeBlushion, just try to get your head down and don’t forget there is a load of support available here and with lymphoma action Blush

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    FormerMember in reply to Joncol

    I was the same as you in as much I was initially diagnosed with a head and neck cancer which was a shock as I thought I had an inflamed gland , I had just about got my head around that thinking surgery and all that involved, I was diagnosed with burkits lymphoma which I was told was treated by chemotherapy, I just decided that I didn’t want to know everything that could be known, I just wanted to get on with it and accept the whole process, I couldn’t change anything, I was 60 at the time , I managed to have four of the treatment cycles (100 hours of non stop chemotherapy) at home via a backpack, so I am still here, I had to give up work, but I am still here, it at time’s was a bit rotten , but I am still here, common thread running here!

    due to the shielding process I am now indoors for a while , it can be a bit boring, but having undergone the chemotherapy I did nothing, went no wear , saw no one all due to protect myself from infeBlushion, just try to get your head down and don’t forget there is a load of support available here and with lymphoma action Blush

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you for taking the time to reply. I think I’m just stressed out not knowing what is going on. Obviously getting the news is distressing but Covid-19 has now made it even more difficult to deal with.

    Best wishes 

    Teresa

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    FormerMember in reply to Joncol

    Thank you for your results Jane,

    The writing everything down is a good tip. I’m hoping that like you, once I have a treatment plan in place and discussed the way forward, I might be a little less stressed. I’m glad that you are now able to put your own experience to the back of your mind and enjoy your life again. Coviid-19 will not be a problem for ever. You’ll be out and about again soon Fingers crossed

    Best wishes 

    Teresa x

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    FormerMember

    I dont have much insight or advice as I just got diagnosed myself but I thought it was interesting my ENT also found my lymphoma but in my nose. I wonder if it's a common finding for ENTs given their area of expertise and the lymph nodes in that area. Anxiety about the diagnosis could definitely contribute to the inability to sleep and the nausea. Best of luck in your endeavors!