Hi my husband has recently been diagnosed with Lymphoma following a diagnosis of Thymic cancer nearly eight years and prostate cancer.

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hi, new to this group but very familiar with spouse who has incurable cancer group. My husband Alan diagnosed with prostate cancer early 2011, then in October that year diagnosed with incurable thymic cancer, two rounds of chemo kept things in check then fifteen months ago his hb started dropping. It was thought to be the Thymic cancer kicking in so started third round of chemo. It stopped after 3 rounds as he became blood transfusion dependant by Dec last year he was on EPO injection to bring hb up, no joy. Double dose Epo Jan n Feb n hb continued to drop. Several cardiac incidents when hb dropped to 7 and still no answer till last admission to hospital with cardiac incident I was told to contact our local hospice as the cancer was obviously moving forward quickly as he has unbelievable number of Lymph nodes distended throughout his body, which we did.  Last scan n what we thought was last appt with our oncologist the Thymic cancer stable for last nine months and some were slightly mms only smaller. But many other lymph nodes were enlarged and she thought he may have developed a blood cancer on top.

as it is he has, lymphoma, we were originally told by our lung nurse specialist it was low grade B lymphoma but saw the Haem team last Friday, I’m a nurse but couldn’t understand which lymphoma he has. Def needs chemo because his body is swollen all over with the enlarged lymph nodes and struggling to cope with any everyday tasks, in fact sleeps most of the time. Now needs a bone marrow biopsy to determine which chemo to use so we are waiting yet again. Actually so tired with having to fight for my husbands right to live.

saffie

  • Hi sorry to see your husbands medical issues expanding, if its low grade B cell NHL then the common type in that group is follicular or FNHL, so if it is and he has a high tumour burden then he will likely receive chemo, which one may depend on his other health issues. They will check the marrow to see if its present so that when treatment finishes they will know whether it needs checking again to confirm no evidence of disease, if the marrow is clear its unlike they will check again. Low grade lymphomas are not curable and most people learn to live with them as they only need treatment when they become an issue and impact on ones health or if they should transform into an aggressive type.

    The good news is once treatment starts he should get some relief as it starts to get rid of the disease straight away and the nodes shrink or masses disappear. Steroids can help in the short term. The fatigue could be linked to the lymphoma as its classed as a B symptom and some people I was one have B symptoms, so in short no reason why his quality of life should not improve once treatment has started and this beast is put in to remission.

    any questions just ask

    john

    we all know this is a roller coaster ride, where we ride blind, never knowing where the highs and lows are
  • Hi  and welcome to our corner to the Online Community but so sorry to hear the journey Alan and yourself have been on. It’s a very hard time and now you are facing a blood cancer and the science behind it.

    On the whole blood cancers can be very treatable but it is important to have very clear information so the very best treatment that can find the best way forward. Each blood cancer presentation has it’s own characteristics so the frustrating wait is so important.

    Blood cancer is just not like solid tumour cancers and once chemo goes to work, it normally works quickly basically breaking the cell buildup away.

    I had a brick sized growth on my neck, my jaw had seized, my gums had swollen and we're coming up to cover my teeth. I was having great difficulty eating and was living on a liquid diet and my breathing was starting to be restricted. I had an initial 15min chemo blast and that got me through our family Christmas - it was very effective.

    There are many types of Lymphoma and each one has its own treatment route.

    Keep posting and asking your questions as we will do our best to help.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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    FormerMember in reply to Thehighlander

    Thank you Highlander for such a quick reply, I am a actually falling apart, I hate seeing the way he is so swollen literally head to toe with swollen nodes, breathless doing hardly anything. after fighting six years of thymic cancer then to be faced with this on top, I know life is not fair but think he’s had more then his fair share. But I know now, thank you that we are looking at a different type of cancer. So will wait to hear when the bone marrow biopsy will be and fingers crossed the chemo may kick in quite quickly. Saffie

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    FormerMember in reply to johnr

    As I say I am a nurse and even I  failed to actually find out on Friday exactly what his lymphoma is, Thank you, they def feel he needs chemo cos of the effect it is having on his body. Hanging on to the fact you say that once treatment starts he should get some relief cos that is all I want some quality of life for him cos he hasn’t had any for past 12 months.

    Thank you

    Saffie

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    Hello there ,

    just last week I’ve been diagnosed with high grade non Hodgkin’s , having another biopsy tomorrow and waiting to see exactly what kind it is ....it’s so distressing to read about what you and your spouse are going through ... don’t give up hope ....take  one day at a time ....you are so strong 

  • Hi Saffie, do you have a contact number to ring to see if you can find out what type it was, I know when I was diagnosed the surgeon would not tell me the type and said I had to wait to see a haematologist, as we were walking out I did not realise he and the specialist nurse were behind me. He did though hear me say that was a waste of time, about 3 hours later I got a call to tell me I would be seeing the haematologist the following day. So if you have the energy become pro-active and see what you can find out. Then you know what you are dealing with with your husband and we can give more specific advice.

    John 

    we all know this is a roller coaster ride, where we ride blind, never knowing where the highs and lows are
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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you L.LB. Good luck with your biopsy tomorrow