Hi suzyc sorry to hear about your husband…..
Just to check….. has your husband Melanoma or Myeloma as they are very different types of cancer.
Hi Suzyc. Sorry to read this. Mike as got a hold of it. I am a multiple myeloma patient. Early days. But end of life care is difficult. I know that. Macmillan have a support number 24/7. You may wish to contact them. Do you have a hospice lined up at all ? You will also need some emotional support. Meanwhile I leave you to respond to. Mike. With his question. Kevin
No he has Melanoma which has mastersized the lymph nodes are growing out of his neck and near his windpipe Macmillan nurse nurse has been today she comes every week at the moment we have hospice not far from us
Hi again suzyc and thank you for clarifying this.
You are navigating a very challenging team me and when it comes to the practical and emotional challenges of supporting your husband you may benefit from joining and posting in our Carers only and Supporting someone with incurable cancer support groups where you will connect with others navigating the exact same support challenges.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear.
We also have our Ask an Expert section but do allow a few working days for a reply.
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