Hi I'm new here my name is Elsa. My husband has stage 4 melanoma with metastases to small bowel, right lung, lymph nodes and a brain tumour. Had seizure 3 weeks ago. He is now very ill, he also has advanced alzheimers and together with the brain tumour mentally he's very poorly. He's not eating much, very fatigued and has extreme melena. There's no further treatment for him and prognosis is very poor, just weeks. I'm caring for him 24/7 as he wishes to remain at home. See him like this is very distressing. Is anyone out there going through the same as me? Any tips on how to try and cope and how best to support him. Thank you.
