28yr old, new mum and shock melanoma

I can’t offer much advice but I’m in a similar situation. 
mum 41 with an 18 month old and found lump in my breast. I was seen, had a mammogram and biopsy, Nicky dismissed saying it looks like a cyst and I’m at that point in my life. Biopsy showed melanoma cells. Had a CT scan and they found it in my neck too. Would have travelled through there to get to my breast. 
I’ve started immunotherapy this week, on the strongest dose they can give me, with the hope that in young and strong enough to fight this. 
its truly terrifying. But the babies are a blessing. 
use them as a distraction, but don’t bottle up your feelings either. Even the dark feelings need a bit of air time. 
this week however I’ve given myself a talking to as the only thing I know I can influence is my mind set. I have to be here, in every moment, doing the best I can. 
I’m new to this forum but if you want to private message I’m happy with that. It’s so totally overwhelming xxx 

Sorry to hear about your situation. It's tough, especially with a new baby. I recommend connecting with online communities or local support groups. My cousin found it helpful during a similar time. Lean on friends and family for support too.

Get some help from friends and family 

Hi would I be able to ask you advice about your breast lump please ? X 

Hello I’m four weeks postpartum and found a similar lump in groin I have been given a 2 week urgent referral for suspected cancer by my doctor as he said it is hard unmoving. Could you tell be abit about your diagnosis and how it is going x

I have had a melanoma in my groin I didn’t notice mine until it was huge . There was confusion as to what mine was . I was sent to the wrong hospital . I ended up at Bristol for the op . It was a kilo . I am after a year of treatment in remission . Have been for couple of years . I have have four melanomas two on the skin one insitu one stage one . One in my pelvis which is stable all in a six year period . I recovered well my treatment was two weekly for a year this was for the one in my groin it was about 5” across . I wasn’t too unwell and there is no hair loss this was done near me . You have this , be positive good luck . Keep us posted