Hello everyone....I am on the emotional rollercoaster. In 2019 I saw a large ugly mole on my back by chance in a store changing room. I phoned my doctor's and was told I was "in luck" as they had a mole expert in the surgery that day. Feeling reassured by that off I went to the appt. The doctor was quite off hand and told me it was absolutely nothing to worry about, clearly a benign harmless growth. He informed me this would not be removed on the NHS but if I wanted it removed for cosmetic reasons that would be for me to do privately.. I have absolutely no vanity, don't wear makeup, don't dye my hair etc (good for those who do just not my style)so having a cosmetic procedure wouldn't have been on my list of things to do. He told me those growths were always benign with no words of caution.
October 23rd 2021 it started to itch...I went back to my GP and the doctor I saw this time did an urgent referral. My consultant took one look and told me he would be amazed if it wasn't melanoma and needed an urgent removal. He also felt I had had it since 2019. He has written to my doctor with this view.
So like many of you I am now waiting for the biopsy result with all the worry that goes with that. I have scared myself witless with Google.
I doubt I am alone there! So to anyone else who is going through the gamut of emotions you have a friend in me!
Best of luck with the result and outcome. My GP took a similar approach, initially, but I suggested that if there was even the remotest chance it was not just a mole I would like it removing. He agreed to do it himself 2 weeks later and, hey presto, it was a melanoma in situ. At least he admitted that he was surprised and referred me off for a WLE. I hope your's isn't too advanced after 2 years.
Thanks Lynskey, I will post the results expecting them in a week. When I saw my consultant he actually went along the corridor knocking on the treatment room doors to see if anyone could remove it that day...I ended up paying for him to do it privately a week later.
Hi Anne1536…I’m so so sorry you have found your way here under the circumstances you have….I went to my GP a couple of years ago and was told nothing to worry about and in July it started to grow a second lump and it became an urgent case…so I empathise….please don’t google, there is so much stuff out there that’s not relevant or out of date, Macmillan is a great site for solid info…others will no doubt message and provide any helpful advice that they can…everyone has different outcomes but once you have got the results of your biopsy you will be in a better place to know what the next stage is….waiting is tough, everyone here says the same…but try stay positive and reach out if you are struggling…take care x
Hi Anna1536. I know exactly how you feel when I was waiting for my biopsy results. The worst thing I ever did was go on Dr Google, I ended up having to go onto antidepressants from my gp because I scared myself so much reading all the horror stories. Please take some kind advice and stick to this site or cancer research. I waited 6 weeks for my results and in that time I imagined it had spread and was really bad news. Yes I was called back for the results and I’m stage 1A which I realise I’m very, very lucky to have caught it early. The dermatologist also told me he suspected melanoma when he did the biopsy. I’m now waiting for the WLE op date. Please be kind to yourself and try not to worry too much, it’s true that this is the worst part. I was relieved when I was told my diagnosis as now I know what I’m dealing with. Take care. K. x
Hope everything goes ok for you too Anne. Please let me know how you get on
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