Feeling really overwhelmed. I had a mole biopsy and it came back as lentigo maligna. I have since had a wider local excision a week ago. I have a wound that is just over 2 inches on my face which is still healing.
I was advised by my GP receptionist to call in early this week and they'd send me a link to get a medical certificate to have time off work as I really don't feel ready to go back. It's a customer facing role in retail. I need to do a lot of bending and lifting and it's fast paced. I haven't been sleeping very well. I keep getting restless leg. I have hip Bursitis and under physio as my knee is causing me pain.
I filled in the link the GP sent for medical certificate but the Dr texted back that I need to contact the clinician at the hospital as they deal with it and not them. I was so upset as I have work tomorrow and really can't face anyone at work looking like this and worried my wound could get infected or open. I feel very vulnerable. I rang the hospital who said they advise that a week is usually enough time off work and if I don't feel ready the GP should deal with it. I then rang 111 for advice to get confirmation who I need to speak to. I had a wound check appointment booked for today as I have dissolvable stitches. I feel like just handing in my notice at work as I feel it's all too much. I'm worried I'm overreacting. I'm new to the drs as have moved home.
I have now seen the GP nurse and I couldn’t hold in the tears. She got a registrar to pop in and see me. He said he would get a GP to do a medical certificate for me. They both said I definitely wasn't ready to go back to work.
I just feel so upset as I was doing so well trying not to touch my face and keeping facial expressions to a minimum to help my wound heal well and minimise scaring and infection. I just feel I have now made a step back as I couldn't stop crying.
I was being so positive until I received the GP text saying they don't deal with the certificate. I have now messaged the practice manager and the receptionist replied a nice response but basically saying that the Dr isn't in today and will deal with it tomorrow.
The certificate link request form had a space to enter phone number in case the dr needs to speak about the certificate. I feel this stress could have all been avoided if the Dr had rang me instead of sending the text.
Hi Smilexxx. How thoughtless GPs can be and their receptionist. You clearly have a lot to deal with and it’s not just about what appears on the outside, it’s how you feel on the inside. Before Covid my GP used to be desperate, you could spend all morning trying to get through, then when you do the appointments were gone. Things have changed dramatically since then as you apply for an appointment online, it is then triaged by a doctor and in most cases you get a phone call from a doctor or you get an appointment.
you must take as long as you need to feel ready to go back to work. It’s almost like getting ready to go on stage, and also you need to be ready to answer people’s questions.
I feel for you but you will feel better soon, how your feeling is not abnormal, we all deal with trauma and stress in different ways. Stay strong, sending you best wishes.
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