Scars

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I am 4 weeks post WLE and SLNB. I had my wound check and the consultant was so proud of his work took photos Joy everyone on the medical team were impressed saying it was healing well and the consultant did well to avoid a skin graft. 

I on the the other hand cannot see what they see.

The scar is a long and wide L shape which sits from my elbow up to the bottom of the t shirt. I know I should be grateful but for me it’s the first thing my eye is drawn to. I’ve been wearing long sleeve tops since October as my initial biopsy was large, and the scar not pretty. Yes this new scar is tidier but it’s so big and I feel that I am now even more self conscious.

i have a clear CT scan and hopeful to have a clear SLNB in 2 weeks and this is a big weight off my shoulders but I can’t seem- yet to get over a scar that’s so prominent or know how to move forward from seeing it and becoming friends with it.

have people had similar concerns and how have they learnt to live with it. 

  • Small steps ... I think you are doing brilliantly! 

    UV clothing has come on leaps and bounds. I remember decades ago when it wasn't much beyond full-body swim-suits and all the UV fabric was a horrid grey. Now there are pretty ranges and a wide variety of colours. It's great that your friend in Australia has sent links for some options there, and there are many UK options now also. Hope you find something you like and once again well done for building up the confidence step by step.

    Every scar is different – do need team to advise here – but I was amazed at how well the scar plasters worked for my daughter. I think there is also a gel option. With me, the surgeon advised further (plastic) surgery for my worst scar though my mother refused (I was under 18). Thankfully that one improved a lot over time, a long time without my doing anything to it. Xx