Hi my husband has just been diagnosed with stage 4 metastasis melanoma. it’s been such a horrible time. Still is. I’m out my mind with it all. It’s gone to small bowel, some lymph nodes and a bit on spleen. Waiting for brain mri to check. He’s starting immunotherapy next week. He’s lost a lot of weight, no appetite, feeling very unwell and he’s totally depressed. I really do think he needs someone to talk to about it. Open to any advice pls thanks
Hi Vick29 and a very warm welcome to our corner of the online community
I'm really sorry to read how your husband is feeling after being diagnosed with stage 4 melanoma. It's natural that he's reeling after this news and that he needs to talk to someone. Can I suggest that he joins this group as he can then chat to other stage 4 melanoma patients.
Anne
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