Hi MikeK you are in the right place, but so sorry you find yourself here. We here are all people who either have lung cancer, or are supporting a loved one with this disease.
You can normally find someone here to chat with or will share their experience with you.
Has your wife started treatment yet or is this a recent diagnoses ?
Hi Mike
Like Chelle, I’m really sorry that you find yourself here but speaking as one who uses this website a lot, there is a lot of help and guidance available - just ask. One thing I will say though is make sure you look after yourself 
