Supporting a Mum With Lung Cancer

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My mum has been diagnosed with inoperable Small Cell Lung Cancer and is about to start chemotherapy and immunotherapy to give her the best chance to enjoy what time she has left. It's all so unfair for her, she beat oral cancer only to have this...

We're both still trying to make sense of it all; the prognosis and the speed at which diagnosis and treatment is proceeding is all a bit overwhelming but I understand that to have maximum impact on the disease this speed is necessary.  For me, whilst I know what the medium-term holds for her / us, I don't know what the journey will be like as we get there.  

Not much else to say at the moment, other than a family history of lung cancer is causing me additional worry.

Thanks.

  • Hi Sekker_UK and welcome to the group, but sorry to hear about your mum.  I can fully understand how unfair you feel this is, especially after your mum already having mouth cancer. 

    It is very scary when a family member receives a cancer diagnoses, and the fear of what is ahead, but talking to others who are in a similar situation to yourself does help you through this difficult time. There are 3 different support forums on the community you can join.

    Family and friends 

    Carers only

    supporting someone with incurable cancer group

    You will find several people there who are going through a similar situation to yourself.  You can also call the Macmillan support helpline for support 7 days a week from 8am til 8pm on 0808 808 00 00 

    I think once your mum starts her treatment and gets into a routine with this, things will settle down for you both. There are lots of people in the group who have done really well on the chemo and immunotherapy treatment.  

    Take care

    “Try to be a rainbow, in somebody else's cloud” ~ Maya Angelou
    Chelle 

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    FormerMember in reply to chellesimo

    Thank you for the welcome / reply Chelle.  

    Chemo starts on Monday, so, as you say, once we're into a routine, it will make it al little easier.

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    FormerMember

    Hi, my mum was also diagnosed with metastic lung cancer which has spread to her lympth nodes and hip bone. She was diagnosed on 8.2.21 and we have been told this week that the planned chemo and immunotherapy treatment isnt appropriate for mum due to mum reacting badly to the chemo. We are now left with wondering how long we have left with mum..... me (35) and my sister (38) are the ones caring for mum with working fulltime and having our own young families. 

    Every day is a new theme park ride for us. 

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    FormerMember in reply to FormerMember

    Thank you for the reply Richieroo21 and I'm sorry to read that the therapies aren't working out for your mum. I hope that in however much time you have (hopefully quite a bit), you, your sister and your families get to spend as much time as you can with her.

    Yes, everyday is a new experience.