Just been diagnosed with stage 4 lung primary. Metastatic spread to brain x 2, liver x3, bone x3 lymph and potentially adrenal glands. The only symptoms have and that I presented with are unsteadiness to one side and now tiredness. Obviously for all of us to this group its a massive shock/blow.
The pain of seeing your loved ones go through this is more than I can bear. My daughter is due to give birth to her first baby in next couple of weeks. I can't imagine not being wel and with her during labour (I'm a midwife too)
They think they have identified the type that may be suitable for targeted immunotherapy but waiting on a few more resultsfrom mung biopsy, but now due to timing may not start for a couple of weeks.They have also mentioned doing some brain treatment tol.
How do you get past this time? Its only been 7 weeks since any symptoms began and my world has just completely imploded.
I know this outcome isn't going to be good. I just need some idea of time and success rate and how to cope til the next part
Update 10/01/26
Anyone have any tips on coping with digestive problems?
I'm so bloated after eating, especially carbs and nightime nocturnal habits resemble a farmyard in my bedroom. I've started on targeted therapy this week. Been on Dex and Lansoprazole for 8 weeks, brain radiotherapy next week and chemo starts week after. Feel like I'm having a phantom pregnancy with my slightly overdue daughter.
Try to just think positive thoughts I did my very best to say to myself well I got it what am I going to do about it and I t was hard but after I stopped worring about it and ignored it ,your body's an amazing thing making yourself I'll by getting up taught just won't help good luck
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