Hi, dad got his staging although I’m not entirely sure what it means, they have said that they are hopeful that after a few rounds of chemo he can have radiotherapy with a hope to get rid of it
First round of chemo went well, he’s been tired but so far no other side effects. He’s had a week of the injections to boost his white cells and other than fatigue they have gone well too.
He has to see the consultant on Thursday before his next round starts, how often do you expect to see them ? No one has given him a schedule so obviously he worried as to why they want to see him already but I told him that’s probably normal?
He is worried obviously because things change so frequently every time he goes to the consultant its hard to keep up to date.
Hi, sorry to hear about your dad's diagnosis.
The staging determines the stage where the cancer is now and whether it has spread. In your dad's diagnosis of T4 N2 M0; the 'T' means tumour, the 'N' nodal (lymph nodes), and the 'M' metastases (spread to other areas outside the lung). So your dad has a cancer in his lung staged at 4 and with N2 it has spread into 2 of his lymph nodes, but the good news is that the M0 means he has no spread to other organs.
I don't know if your dad has had a biopsy of his tumour, this will determine what type of cancer it is, whether NSCLC (non-small cell lung cancer) or SCLC (small cell lung cancer). Usually with a staging of 4, your dad will be seen quite regularly. Could you or another member of the family or a friend possibly attend his appointment to see the consultant, you will then get a clearer picture of what is happening.
Please keep in touch with us all on here, we have all been or are going through the same and are here to help.
Best wishes.
Ann
Hi I had the same diagnosis as your dad in 2023. However I had the more radical concurrent chemoradiotherapy over 4 weeks. I saw my consultant each week before the next weeks treatment started. They like to check your bloods at each stage and check how you are coping with the treatment. It is now 20months since my treatment finished and I am in remission and now having 6 monthly check ups. I hope your dad’s treatment goes well. It is helpful to have someone with you if possible when you see the consultant so you can be sure you have heard everything correctly and they can ask questions you may have forgotten
good luck to your dad
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