Hi everyone. My dad was diagnosed with non small cell lung cancer, stage 3 in February. It’s in his right lung as a large mass and in his lymph nodes in the same lung. We were told he would have the cancer removed surgically but following his pet scan and biopsy he has been told he wouldn’t survive the op due to also having copd in the non cancerous parts of his lungs. We move onto chemo and radiotherapy as treatment options. He is told he isn’t well enough for chemo as he has symptoms causing him to be unable to walk due to extreme pain in his knees. The surgeon said this is being caused by the tumour, something to do with hormones being produced. The risks of clots, heart attack etc are much greater as he has very limited mobility. So we’re looking at radiotherapy only. He had his cast mould done yesterday and planning scan plus radiotherapy appointments for 4 weeks due to start on May 9th. Today his oncologist called to say the field is too large and he can’t get radiotherapy.
It now appears we face no treatment options. I cannot believe this is happening as the docs were all so confident they could remove it surgically, then no. Then chemo radiotherapy, then no. Then radio only, now no.
Has this happened to anyone else?
We meet his oncologist on Monday but I have no idea what to expect. We’re a close strong family ready to take on whatever comes but it’s safe to say the bottom has just fallen out of our world today.
His knee issues are really getting him down, he’s not had any formal diagnosis as the rheumatologist wanted to prioritise his cancer treatment. The oncologist says they can’t advise anything for them as it’s not their area but used the term presenting Paraneoplastic Syndromes.
Hi guys sorry to hear this news, every case is different as everyone's body is different and the test done are to determine if quality of life can be imporved or not. You can also ask for a second opinion but as hard as it seems try and keep positive, i was diagnosed in November 20 with stage 4 lung cancer this was also in my lymph nodes and adrenal glands so unfortunately no surgery for me but i was offered a trial treatment that i have been on since December 20 consisting of immunotherapy then radiotherapy and back to immunotherapy this it controlled my cancer and shrinking all my tumours my treatment stops this December and my body is on its own , I've kept positive attitude towards my cancer and returned to work again so dont let the illness control you.
Ask about trials ask for second opinion i wish you all the best keep positive.
Regards
Darren
Thanks Darren, I’ll do that on Monday when we see the consultant. Sorry to hear you’re facing this too, stay strong and have a lovely Easter.
update… the oncologist yesterday and she advised the max dose of radiotherapy for my dad is 1000cc and with the size of his tumour he’d need 1250cc which is too much.
He was considered too unwell for chemo due to the mobility issues he has been suffering since before he found out he had cancer. The doctors believe this is paraneoplatstic syndrome and is being caused by the cancer itself. As he was healthy and fit beforehand with no mobility issues, she hopes these issues will reduce with treatment of the cancer. As a result, she has booked him in for 1 chemo drug starting tomorrow. It’s Carboplatin. After 3 weeks he will see her again and if he’s doing ok, she’ll add a 2nd chemo drug for his 2nd session. After that he’ll be scanned and as long as the tumour isn’t showing resistance and growing then she’ll continue for another 2 cycles.
If all goes well, after the 12 weeks she will scan him again and if tumour has shrunk to within the threshold for radiotherapy, she’ll give him 4 weeks of that.
It’s a rollercoaster of emotions. So glad they are trying something.
Wow thats great they have decided to try something stick with the battle you will come out the other side hopefully better off.
Good luck
Darren
First chemo session done on Wednesday. Carboplatin only for this first one to see how it goes. He was very nervous going in but was really quite cheery when we picked him up. We had a group hug and headed home to get him a cup of tea. As the afternoon progressed he said he felt the best he had felt in months. This continued through to Thursday night when he started to feel a bit ruff. He’s had a restless night but no sickness or diarrhoea yet. He’s very tired so is napping on the couch right now.
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